No one loves me.. Suicide? =/?
Well i'm 16, I have no REAL friends.
I was sexually abused when I was 8 and when I told someone they didn't believe me.
I have trust issues and find it hard to let people in.
I've lost the people i really care about because I'm insecure.
I'm alone, fat, ugly, small.
My family hate me they just put up with me.
I got bullied at school.
I've had previous suicidal thoughts and I've almost attempted by overdose.
No one cares about me.
No one notices, or will even realise I'm gone.
There's nothing positive about me at all I've got nothing I'm so ugly.
I'll never get married, in school all the boys made it clear what they thought about me.
Shall I just finally end my nightmare of a life?
Advice =/
More Questions From This User See All
Answers & Comments
Verified answer
This might sound trite, but believe it or not, life gets better
I cant stand to hear people think about suicide. its awful. And to no that, what i might say, could impact your decision for ever, and what everybody else says, that makes me want to answer this question with a really heart warming answer(: so here it goes
Dont do it. Your 16, and your emotions are going crazy, you will end up feeling better about ur self as life goes on, slowly try to improve your life. Join a club or 2, talk to people, and get to make some friends, i know you wont trust them. I know and understand that. Maybe your trust will come back with therapy, or with ur real friends help, maybe just be their friend, and not let them push u into telling secrets or anything personal.
Keep a journal or diary with you, ONLY at home, HIDE it, so if u brought it at school people could steal and look at it, and your family could find it if you dont hide it, pour your heart out in it, and tell every little feeling, that ur feeling, everything on your mind, everything that happened at school, the dairy wont spill any secrets.
If you really feel fat, and ugly, maybe try to change ur look, save up some money and go shopping for cute clotes u like, maybe change ur hair style, or dye it a diffrent color.
When you say that your family hates you, does that include your aunt, uncle, grandparents? If not, then ask them if you can live with them you will live a happier life, knowing there is atleast a few people that care about you, and you live with them (along with the new friends u make).
Never think about suicide, you may need to go to some therapy, ik i may sound like a douche saying that, but i really think you need to talk to a professional.
Everything everybody says on this page, will make an impact on your life.
Everybody put into your life makes an impact, wether its good or bad, they are there for a reason, it may be to open up your eyes so u can see something obv. that you never thought or saw before.
suicide should never EVER be a option i know it's hard not to care what other people think BUT this is not the way to go you can't let people get to you if it's effecting you this much seek help IMMEDIATELY a boy at my former high school just committed suicide because he was bullied it's horrible how cruel some people can be but you have so much to live for graduating ( which was the GREATEST day of my life byfar) going away to college your about to enter the best part of your life & you'll gain more people's respect by pulling through this a holding your head up high rather then taking your life...i really hope this helps :)
No. Killing yourself will never settle anything. You may not relize it but ppl will miss you. They will blame it on themselves. They will ruin there lives bc they could help. Try talking to people.. Like your family. I know families are annoying. But talking about it can help. And you probably will get married, you just havnt found the right person and that person hasnt found you yet. Your still in school.. You have a lot to live for. I know that it is rough. But at least you have a family. :/ There are a lot of things that could be worse. I would start taking things for granted.. Dont end ur life when it is just about to begin..
I don't think seeking advice on the internet is the way to go here.
You should seek help with an actual person. Some positive human contact will probably be helpful. Plus then they could give you specifics of what makes you great =)
You have no real friends because you have trust issues. Let yourself go and open up. Eventually everything will line up, people will notice, family will notice. All you're doing with this pessimism is let yourself down.
~from someone who almost did what you are thinking 30 years ago.
Jesus will always love you. In fact, he loved you enough to die on the cross for you. I used to feel the same. That I was ugly, stupid, and worthless, and I was only 11. But it all changed when I accepted Jesus. All the thing that I cared so much about, my weight, what others thought of me, it looked like nothing compared to Jesus. Accept him, he will never turn you away, he loves you.
email me at: [email protected]
No, you're a teenager and your emotions are allover the place. 10 years from now you'll have a normal life that you fully appreciate and look back on those musings as pure nonsense.
i agree with the 1st comment, ive had some of the problems you listed but you will pull through if you try, you can find friends in the darkest places in life
well sweetheart what you need to do is pray about it because life is too precious to end just because of what you are going through or have already been through......bad things happen so that good things will come to pass. if you believe that then you should go to god and if you need a friend i am here .....my name is Caressa....i am 18 my e-mail is [email protected].....
God Bless && God keep you