well my crush used to like me idk if he still does but he did.. he didnt necessarily tell me he liked me but you could just totally tell..so anyways now this whore girl like no shes really a whore..she keeps hanging out with him and stuff i dont know if they're hooking up but it looks like it..and shes in my class and just the whole time in that class she will stare me down..its soo annoying im like wtf? i dont even talk to you quit staring at me like you know me bxtch..and she will like rush out when the bell rings to go see him and walk with him so i just dont want to see them together so i wait for my friend to walk out of class and then go so i dont see them together..ive always wanted to get over him and i think this really helping me in a weird sort of way..lol i think its just because the girl is so fake that its just annoying and making him ugly..lol i dont know..
basically i just wanted someone to hear my story.. and i was just wondering what should i do because i really dont want to like him anymore..so should i just keep avoiding going through halls and stuff where i would see him or keep going there and see him with this girl and get mad..? and do you think there is like a paticular reason why that girl gives me dirty looks.. and what should i do when she gives me dirty looks?
Thank you soo much<333
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You all go to school together. She probably saw that he liked you, especially if it was so obvious. So, you're a threat and her stare down is a warning not to even think about talking to him. Her behavior, being around him as much as possible, is like she's claiming her guy. No one else can have him.
I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, but life's full of crushes that you might not get. I don't know if avoiding him is going to work forever, but it might be good until your heart can settle down. Focus on something else, your studies, a hobby, having fun with your friends. If she stares, know that she's being stupid and be proud that you aren't stooping to her level.
For the future, know that sometimes you have to step up to the plate. If you want him, don't let your crush fall into the wrong hands, LOL. Good luck!
Why are you letting it bother you? I know easier said than done, but he had a crush on YOU. Don't bother avoiding him or her, try to act neutral. If you show aggravation, she's going to keep bothering you with her looks.
Even if it does bother you, if you should indifference, and I don't mean smiling with an attitude back at her, I mean acting like you don't care at all - complete neutrality. I would imagine you should try to act like she thinks she's got some kind of catch, but you think he's a loser.
And really, she must really be a whore otherwise you're just calling any chick that walks before you one. You know?
EDIT - Oh, I see, you had a crush on him. Doesn't mean he's yours, sweetie. Drop it. What if some guy liked you, and you got a boyfriend, and he acted like you did something wrong? I'm thinking you'd call him a stalker and to get over it.
(Not trying to sound insulting, just saying it's going to bother you more if you let it)
If she gives you dirty looks, ignore it. She probably thinks your getting in the way of her and him, and she wants you to stay away from him. Just ignore her, and if you cant seem to then read a book or sing a song in your head and you tend to just ignore people like that. If you really don't want to like him anymore then don't. She might like him and he just thinks of her as a friend. you never know.
Yikes! High school still sucks.