major boy problem gaaah! There's one guy who is honestly perfect. He's super smart, nice, funny, understanding, random, and I can literally tell him anything. He's so easy to talk to and I'm never bored with him. He likes me alot too, and says it nearly everday. EXCEPT, I don't know if I like him that much, and if I tell him he'd probably never speak to me again. I feel really bad about it, and I've tried so hard, but I can't really see us together. The other boy, is friends with 2 of my exes, and I'm not as close with him, and he's not as easy to talk with, plus I've only just started flirting with him..but I actually like him. Except he's not as good of a guy, and he's never said he likes me, like the other one has. What would you do if you were me?. Created by Kaylee K. family-relationships-en - singles-dating-en

Ooooh boy troubles :/?

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Ooooh boy troubles :/?

major boy problem gaaah! There's one guy who is honestly perfect. He's super smart, nice, funny, understanding, random, and I can literally tell him anything. He's so easy to talk to and I'm never bored with him. He likes me alot too, and says it nearly everday. EXCEPT, I don't know if I like him that much, and if I tell him he'd probably never speak to me again. I feel really bad about it, and I've tried so hard, but I can't really see us together. The other boy, is friends with 2 of my exes, and I'm not as close with him, and he's not as easy to talk with, plus I've only just started flirting with him..but I actually like him. Except he's not as good of a guy, and he's never said he likes me, like the other one has. What would you do if you were me?

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gs0301

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Don't date either for now. If you think the great guy isn't worth dating, it'll just hurt him later if you try to start something. You could always take the risk of dating and hope you'd grow into liking him...but chances are you won't and it'll hurt him a lot more when you break up.

The scarier option is you start dating the guy you don't know as well who also isn't as good of a guy...and find out later that he's even worse than you thought. If you get to know him and find out that he's worth dating that's a different story...but don't rush into it. You wouldn't want to get trapped in a relationship with a bad guy that you don't know how to get out of. That would be rough.

As of right now it might be a good idea to just stay single and get to know both of them but still keep your options open incase a third guy comes along who is a nice compromise between the two. Just my opinion...good luck!

Anonymous

No im not sayin this ell b your only relationship but thin would you rather be with the guy who cares abd i considerate or the cool guy whos probably not good for you at all thus happened to me once and my g frien picked me she was happy with her decision and so was i who do u think i wa considerate or cool? If u think i helped please comment