my and my boyfriend have been dating now for 8 months, and we're very happy together. the problem though is his parents.
[don't take me as some immature teen, this is serious.]
okay, we had been dating for 5 1/2 months when he turned 17. i was 14, so his dad talked to us about him being charged for rape if "something happened" and he was totally cool with it. then his mom found out and she told us we had to break up. then like a month later they said we could start talking when i turned 15 [i'm still not 15] but they now know we are dating.
they ruined his JrProm because he has to take another girl he had asked before we got back together afterthey told us we couldn't go together.
then they never let him do anything. he has to be off the phone by 10:30, home by 11, and other things too.
i feel like they have too much control over him, and seeing that he is 17 i think he should be able to make alot of decisions and things like the ones i've quoted on his own.
opinions please???
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Wow what a mess, if his parents keep that up they will lose their son, you sound really mature for you age, i can understand why his parents are being like that but they are not giving you and him the chance to prove that you both can be adult about you relationship.
I'm sorry, hon, but at your age, you have no business being with someone so much older. The second he turns 18 that is grounds for a statutory rape charge for him, don't you understand that?! Whether your parents or his say anything or not, the D.A. can pursue these things on their own, and if you care about him then you should take that into account. And he should know better anyways~you are too young, and he is old enough to know better. don't be surprised that his parents don't want him with you, The point is that it LOOKS bad, and they KNOW this. You are NOT EVEN FIFTEEN, and their son is going to be EIGHTEEN. What happens when he goes off to college, hge'll come home on the weekends to go to high school parties with you? I think not. At such a developmental age in someone's life it is normal for parents to think about their child's well-being. YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT THAT AS WELL, AS A SEXUAL ABUSE CHARGE WOULD RUIN HIS FUTURE. In the eyes of the state you are STILL A CHILD, and he is an adult. Think with your BRAIN not your HEART, you are too young to know the difference.
Well right off your not going to like this but his parents are looking out for his well being they don't want to see there son being charged with rape for you are under age and I don't blame them.
What do your parents think, they more than likely feel the same.
Sorry but under age is under age and rape is rape it would be ashamed if such a young man got charged with this.
His parents do care for there son and I hope yours do also.
He is only 17 and having a curfew is something that his parents should decide. 11 o'clock is very reasonable. His parents are right you are to young to be dating him. 14 is too young to be dating somebody 17. They are concerned about the legal repercussions of your relationship. Do as they ask wait until you are 17.
His parents are right.............When he turns 18 he can make all the decisions he wants...If he is 17 and still living at home he should go by the parents rules.........i would be very careful if i was him, your parents can get him in trouble.....
kinfolk first. Blood is thicker than water. kinfolk is blood acquaintances are water. contained in the words of Michael Corleone." Freido you're my older brother and that i love you. do not bypass hostile to the kinfolk back, Ever."
Just ignore his parents.