So this guy, he tells me that im nice, alot and sometimes I catch him staring at me, and when I ask him"what?" he's all "nothin",then he sorta smiles.. his best friend keeps suggesting that we should hang out, and his sister is like my best friend and she will randomly bring him up and tell me random things about him.
He told me alot about himself within like the first week of knowing him, which i like because alot of the time guys are confusing..
but here's the thing, about a half a year ago, when I first met him he told me he had a girlfriend, actually he told me he has more than one, which I kinda took as a "backoff", you know ..?
He seems like a nice guy, but also kinda like a player...but somehow I really like him, cuz he's fun to be around, and seems like he trusts me..
What should I do? Should i tell him that I like him? if so, how? Or should I wait till he says somethin?
Answers & Comments
If the boy is known to be a player, don't rush anything. He has definitely laid his eyes on you but if you really like him, you need to make sure that to him you will not be just another tick on his list.
Take things slowly. You guys can start hanging out together more without letting anything physical happen yet (I am not sure how old you are but that doesn't even matter this early). Don't tell him you like him as men love the chase and him not knowing that you like him will make him chase you more!
It makes perfect sense, right? Of course you will have fun if you give in but it would not last very long. Especially not yet when you haven't got to known each other on a comfortable friendly basis yet.
And when I'm saying friendly basis, I don't mean you should act like one of the girls who acts like one of the guys. Stay friendly but be a girl!
Good luck! The fact your friend mentions him so often could be another good sign!
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his sister is "like" your best friend? after half a year? im assuming when you and her started hanging out is about the time you met him. if everything you say is accurate and fairly complete, then he isnt a player. he does the stare and say nothing thing(probably because he doesnt know what to say) and has his sister peeping game for her brother? while he has had more than one girlfriend? has his sister confirmed the existance of any of his girlfriends? have you met any of them? sounds like bro needs a hand from sis to hook up with her friend and she agreed. hang out with him in a public place near where you both live(like a shopping mall) for a few hours and see how he acts and what he says. if youre friends with the sister you should be shooting for family friend instead. ever think his sister is dropping hints to hook you up because you arent like her best friend? the best thing is to hang out in a place foor a few hours where he is likely to run into other people he knows and see how he acts.
if he told you he had "lots" of girlfriends and he is flirting.. I assume he only wants one thing!
To find out if this is true, mention in your next conversation (some how) that you are the type of girl that has to love someone before becoming romantically involved. If he backs off then you have your answer
Never date anyone that is seeing someone and remember this mostly will hurt your friendship with his sister if it goes bad.
Don't tell him just yet. Get closer to him and definitely hang out with him. If your not that confident, go to the movies. You won't have to talk as much. Well, it worked for me :D
Remember though: ask for a hug at the end. And if he looks at your lips, he wants to kiss you.
Have fun.
Honestly the way you should handle this is wait for him, if he likes you like you think he does he'll come after you. If He's the player type then just let him go. Hope this helps