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iam a woman who dosent mind my husband watchen porn i atcually like watching it with him i find it quite a turn on and we have a great time after it i recently said this to a friend and she was so shocked and said how can i let my husband get aroused by other woman i explaned that it wasnt like that as we were busy while watchen it and it was just a laugh she has totaly avoided me saying that i was sick what do you think men would you like you partner to join in with you??and woman would you watch porn with your man??
Update:my marriage is very good and sparks are flying every day we watch porn for a laughy and a turn on we dont need it to get turned on we just have to look at each other and we are there
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I watch porn with my man and I also watch it without my man and he watches it without me. I don't see what's wrong with it if it both brings you pleasure, it's not as if anyone is cheating as it is just visual stimulation. Why do women have to be so frigid about this idea of pornography, it doesn't do any harm to anyone. I think your friend is being very silly and narrow minded.
I think people have this disturbed image of porn. The people that are in them are over the top and the whole idea is laughable but I can see where you are coming from. My other half and I do not watch porn but if he came home with it, I would not mind! It is simply a method of arousal as I see it, and something naughty to share between yourselves, no harm is done. Your friend has gone slightly over the top about this because I am pretty sure your husband does not fancy the women in the film, as you don't the men! When my other half was away for four months, he watched porn and I didn't mind! I was glad he watched it rather than get it on with one of the RAF girls there, mind you, one of the girls walked into the communal room and he was watching some whilst waiting for the other guys to go out and he was so embarrassed but our friends do rip him to pieces about it!! Its harmless fun, if you two enjoy it, then why stop?? x
it truly is frequent to observe porn. it truly is frequent to masturbate. i'm getting this from my friends each and each of the time- they experience that if their guy is watching porn, it means that they don't look gratifying him. particularly, that is no longer the case. it truly is like affirming that of a woman has a vibrator or different sex toy it means that her guy (or lady) isn't gratifying her. no longer genuine. Masturbation is frequent, and porn, on condition that it does no longer develop into an habit, is effective. see you later as he's not dishonest on you, I fail to make certain the problem. I understand objecting to porn on moral grounds, yet in case you guy or lady needs to observe it, you actually won't be able to tell them now to not only because you do not agree. you are able to talk about it, particular, besides the undeniable fact that the reality is that if someone needs to observe porn and masturbate, they are going to.
There is no harm in watching porn with your partner, its weird so many women have a hang up with there man watching porn its not like it is there in front of them it is on a tv, why is it such a taboo subject if it spices up sex for the better why not, I think women are worried that if there men watch porn they may fantasise about the other women the thing is your man could be fantasising about others without porn and you would never know. I think your friend is a bit sex shy and probably in a very boring relationship don't worry about her or anyone else if its good for you enjoy
Right on! My ex-spouse who now stalks me with a desire to kill often watched porn incessantly. I personally cannot watch porn but I do sometimes enjoy a good documentary!
If your relationship is strong then what the hell does it matter to anyone but you and your spouse. You should never have to worry about acceptance from anyone. Porn is hilarious for the most part, especially since this isn't exactly Spielburg. I would be more worried if you both didn't find it enjoyable, for to deny our pleasures is to make us less than human.
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I have never been able to understand why some women get so offend it by it. As you can probably tell I enjoy watching it as its stimulating and gives me ideas of new moves and techniques.
So what would your friend say if your husband was watching a comedy and he laughed at a female character? Would she be angered by the fact that another woman was making your man laugh???? WTF????
I guess that is just how your friend has been brought up but don’t feel like thers anything wrong with what you’re doing. If you’re enjoy something and it doesn’t harm anyone else then theres no reason to stop. There are some truly nasty things that people do out there (stuff with animals and kids and all that mess). I think it’s a bit dramatic that your friend has avoided you and I would question how close of a friend she is. But if you wana remain friends call her and let her know its not contagious :-)
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Men watch it on their own, women watch it on their own, so why not watch it together? It's still one of those taboo subjects and I guess it will take some time for that to change, but you shouldn't feel ashamed about this at all, its just making the whole love-making experience that little bit more erotic which is what we all want!
I've been married 11 years, yes we have watched porn together. I have to be in the right mood though, but it doesn't do any harm. It's not like he's touching anyone else or anything is it? Best thing to do is stay away from this "friend" she is obviously not on the same wavelength as you. It is not sick, some people just don't like it and others do. Best next time to just keep it to yourself and your husband. Don't tell other people about your sex life then they won't get shocked or emabarrassed by it.
I feel the same way you do, I like watching porn with my partner, it can be great fun! What consenting adults do with one another in their own home is nobody else's business. My man enjoys the fact that we watch together and I don't care if he watches it alone, it's just porn! Different strokes I guess!
Many women have been brought up to believe that pornography demeans and degrades women. In some cases that is probably true to a certain degree, but our society has changed so that many of the women that are in the porn industry are in it because they want to be. They are no longer the nurse working her way through medical school or whatever. I met a girl in a strip club once who was so excited because she was going to go and be in a porn magazine. That was what she wanted to do with her life.
So far I have not found many women who enjoy watching it, but I would love to meet one. I find it very arousing when a woman can look at porn and find it erotic and not disgusting. I do not fantasize with the women in those movies but I fantasize about the act itself.
I think that your friend is living in a past world where she is worried that the women in those movies are abused or neglected. She needs to be educated. I would recommend to her to maybe watch some of the Real sex specials on HBO that talk about the porn industry today and interview women from it.
Absolutely nothing wrong with porn, so long as it is used in a responsible manner. What you do in your own home, as long as everyone is a consenting adult and no-ones getting hurt, is completely up to you.
Perhaps your friend has a few issues, rather than the other way around!
I would love to be able to watch porn with my husband, but am ashamed to say I still can't get past the embarrassment! I'll work on it. :-)