ok I don't understand why I don't have a boyfriend. its not like I am really ugly but I don't think I am really pretty. I am shy. People that are uglier than me have boyfriends, why doesn't anyone ask me out? I included a picture of my self because am I ugly? is that why? and what is ugly about me and what is pretty about me? thanks.
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People don't date other people strictly by how they look. Maybe it's your negative personality? Try being a little more positive about yourself!
Okay, firstly, you gotta have confidence. Second, if you complain about NOT having a boyfriend that's gonna put them off of you even more. Are you friends with guys? If not there is an issue there. Are you friends with guys you like? Because that could also be an issue but could also help. Find a guy you like, and GENUINLY like and get to know him and see what happens. Being single isn't a bad thing you know. It can be a good thing. Just have fun, you don't have to have a boyfriend because everyone else does. And it doesn't matter if you're ugly or pretty, it matters what you are like as a person.
Your not ugly at all. Your problem is probably that your too shy. You need to learn how to open up to people. Also, and I might be wrong about this, but some people might not like your attitude. It's just when you say uglier people have boyfriends you kind of sound like you think your better than them somehow. Like I said I could be way off here. I don't really know if that's how you think or not because I don't you but that's how it came across to me.
Your 14, boyfriends should be the least of your problems and when you get them you'll most probably want to get rid of them. Who cares if other people are in relationships, its just one less problem you have to deal with. No your not ugly, you need to be more confident.
ur not ugly in the slightest bit, ar u kidding me?
quite the opposite really :p
if anything it might be the shy factor
not that its a bad thing
but if you like a guy, or if you suspect a guy likes you, you gotta let him know
im a pretty shy guy myself, and it always helps when the girl of whom i like lets gives me a couple, idk, signs that im doing the right thing
and they dont always have to be big extravagant "I LOVE YOU" types of things. a smile, a laugh, a giggle, a wink, body contact, a hug, anything. in this case, you gotta be somewhat ahead of the guy if you want him to make the "1st move". you can also make the 1st move to by the by, it helps to do that with shyer guys, lol, trust me (not that ive been with guys, lol, its cuz im that kind of guy myself XD)
babe, the male species can be a confusing one, even to ourselves, but i do know this:
with relationships comes communication, even before the relationship starts lol
so uk, drop a couple signs for guys, flirt a little, put yourself out there
any guy who would turn u down is crazy :p
It doesn't always have to be about looks. It's also about confidence. Get a new hairstyle or some new sexy undies, sometimes it's the smallest things that can help us feel better and have more confidence. No guy wants to talk to a girl who hates herself. Think about it.
Amanda your so beautiful stop saying your ugly! i have seen ugly people YOUR NOT ONE OF THEM! your 14 tooooo young to date! only skanks** date at that age! lol and stop being so shy!
you need to get more confidence hun, im the same as you, confidence is a total zero. your pritty and you need to start seeing it!!
believe in yourself x
how can u say that bout urself your gorgous, self confidence, thats all u need
amanda u looking stunning... seriously im the exact same about myself...add me my name is *****vodka on the rocks!!!:)******