I am very upset because the girls in my class are always being very rude and mean. I try my best to not give them a reason to bug me but in all my efforts nothing works.
The other day I hurt my back and no one would help me with my books when i had to go to the second floor for my class (locker in on first floor) Not only that but they are brainwashing my only guy friends and I've been getting a ,lot of mixed feelings from one of them. I'm tired of being made fun of, but i can't do anything about it. It has been going for as long as I can remember, but got worse this year. And every time I state my opinion to someone the girls give me a cold shoulder. It's gotten so worse that I can't say a word without people saying a nasty comment. All the girls in my class are doing this (small school) and i don't fit in with any of the other kids! what should i do?
p.s I'm 15
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This should not be happening to you or anyone. Can you talk to an adult, a teacher, your parents or someone who could help you and get this to stop. They are dumb and young and girls and boys do not so smart things when they are you. Can you go to a different school? Maybe you should just ignore them which is hard, but if you just walk away and don't look at them or talk or answer them, they'll get tired of their childish actions. Good luck to you.
tell your mum or teachers. if thats not an option then ask to move tutors (if possible) or speak to one of the girls and tell them you are sorry if whatever you do/have done has upset them. if all else fails ignore them and try to just concentrate on your studies and school work. there are a few people who will understand without interferring such as:
Childline (08001111)
Anti-Bullying Campaign (02073 781446)
if you go online and type in "childrens helplines" there are more. hope this helps
I suggest you confront them and tell them what's wrong and why they are so mean and rude. if that doesn't help, seek your teachers or parents and tell them what's going on. and if everybody starts being mean and rude to you, there is no other way but to move school. If you see the girls trying to brainwash your guy friends, tell them to back off or something because they're stealing your guy friends. Stand up for yourself and don't let others bully you!
tell you what I dont like to tell you this but they need an *** kicking for real some people just dont get it until you kick their ***. sorry , violence is not a good thing but some people do deserve a whooping and you said you tried everything . when you stand up to one of them and say I'm tired of this nonsense and go crazy on her youll see a change . dont have to do this but I would for sure .
You need to grow a thicker skin and not let them get to you. they do it cause you allow it. Stop caring what they think
well id would ask advice from ur guy friend if he truly was ur friend he would back you up.