question concerning self-esteem..?
i'm honestly slightly confused about myself because i'm 5'9" and 146 lbs. i don't think i'm really fat or anything since some of it is muscle. i asked a question about what do guys think, like is that too fat or whatever, and all these girls kept telling me how i should get more selfesteem.
how do you "get more selfesteem" since i was under the impression you either had it or didn't really?
and what do guys really think is better: curvy or skinny?
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There are a lot of ways to get more self esteem.
But first, dont think because you worry, or have doubt in yourself sometimes that you have low self esteem. We all doubt ourselves once in a while, and we all worry about wheter or not we can or cant do something.
Its when you accomplish what you thought you couldnt do that your self esteem grows.
If you feel overweight, set a goal. Make it an easy one, and just work your way up from there.
Its better to do it that way than the way everyone seems to do it:
They get there self esteem by telling other people to get some self esteem. ;)
First, every guy is different. Some guys like skinny girls, some guys like curvy girls. Does every one of your female friends like the same type of guy? I would hope not! We all have different natural preferences. If a guy is willing to completely write you off because of your body type, he's not the right guy for you anyway!
As far as the self-esteem issue, it is something that you can build. Participate in activities that you enjoy and that make you feel good about yourself. Focus on the positive aspects of your personality. Sit down and list all the good things about yourself!
This website is pretty cheesy, but it does have some good suggestions:
http://www.wilsonbly.com/handouts/self_esteem.html
At the end of the day, you are more than your body, and it sounds like you are of a perfectly healthy size anyway! Why stress yourself out over what shallow guys like? Why not find someone who appreciates a fit, healthy girl?
confident been there darling... Hes a actual a sshole for doing what he did. you have certainly one of two options particularly forgive him and circulate back into your marriage without the computerized concept "he will do it lower back" and commence sparkling... which does no longer seem as though that's what you're able to doing at this factor or circulate away the marriage. He does not look keen to very own as much as the duty of ways his movements are nevertheless affecting you with the help of fixing the difficulty or strolling away. With being pregnant various females strengthen into extensive conscious of their physique...comprehend this it has no longer something to do consisting of your physique or you, he chosen to try this with the aid of fact of his loss of judgment. you're basically high quality. while babies are in touch its a tough decision yet shifting on may be precise for you and them.Bitterness and distrust will consume you up alive effecting you and your babies and finally ripping you and your husband aside anyhow. GL with each little thing hon Chazz
Your proportions are fine...Stop worrying so much about your physical appearance and look inward.....Everyone has a different opinion of beauty. I believe beauty comes from within..I judge people by how they treat others...