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Don't get drunk and fool around.

...Whore.

You're not a whore. What you need to do now is get a morning after pill, get tested for a full spectrum of STDs, and talk to him. Planned Parenthood will help you with the first two anonymously, and your good friends will help you with the last bit. First, ask yourself if you like him. Could you see yourself with him more long term? If the answer is yes, go to him and tell him that you like him and that you want to see more of him SOBER and clothed, not just a one night stand. If you don't know if you like him, get to know him. Don't be nervous around him, and don't jump right to the 'girlfriend' word. Just suggest that you be friends and that you keep hanging out and see where it goes. If he's not really into a relationship and he wants nothing to do with you, he'll show you right then. If he genuinely likes you, he'll accept. All you can do is try, hun. Talk to your good friends about it too and let them know what his reaction is. If he's a dick, they'll make sure to cheer you up if you need it. I hope this is helpful. Also, you can never know if he really was a virgin or not because he could always lie to you. All you can do is ask and trust him if you think he's being truthful.

You're not a whore just from doing that. You may be a whore if you sleep with a different guy 5 night s a week. Hey, there's a first time for everybody and it was his first time. So what. Didn't you have a first time? Was that guy a whore who took your virginity? Well, maybe he was. But, taking someone's virginity does not make you a whore.

Maybe try and talk 2 him, ask him if he rlly iz a virgin. then ask him what yu 2 shld do, see if either of yu want 2 try and get sumthing outta this or jus leave it as a one night stand...if i lost my virginity that way,i wouldn't want the person that took it 2 jus up and leave and me never see them again. i think the best way 2 anwser ur questions is for yu 2 talk 2 him.

hope this help's..GOOD LUCK!!!!! :) and ur nt a whore, things happen :)

Well in my opinion, I would of never gotten into that situation in the first place. Everyone knows that when their shitfaced, that we do stupid things. Its kinda too late now to tell you that but all I can say is that maybe you should just talk to the guy about what you guys did and just tell him how you feel. And if all goes well, maybe you guys will be on your way to something better.

It's ok. Things like this happen when people drink. It doesn't make it right... its just a common occurrence.

Do you want to pursue a relationship with this boy? Honestly? Or did you just want him that one time?

I'd give him a chance, because obviously, you had some interest in this guy to give him everything you got... and vice versa... obviously he liked something about you too! It takes trust and comfort to partake in sexual activity.... made there's enough trust and comfort to make something happen in a relationship for you both?

Talk to him. Feel him out. Make sure he's ok.

You had fun and maybe it was stupid but talk to him and get to know him. Besides do you think he would be upset to have is virginity gone. (Maybe if he is religious) If he is cool with it then no worries.

P.S. you aren't a whore i have heard of worse things :)

There's no way to tell if a man is a virgin without asking. If I were him I wouldn't want a relationship.

Lol...how can you claim you took his virginity if you don't know if he was a virgin or not? Or was the sex just terrible?

That is kind of whorish :x Uh, there is no test to see if a guy is a virgin soo...with that being said you'll have no option but to listen to his words. (:

Hope you didn't catch herpes.

:D

Was it ur 1st time?

and y are u so worried about if it was his 1st u should b more worried about if u used a condom or if ppl find out ur a stupid slut :( sorry. And if u want to get to kno him do it