While I was growing up, I knew I was gay. But today, I feel so confused about my sexuality. I've been questioning myself, am I gay, bi, or straight? I can't take anymore of these feelings. I've thought about killing myself. I don't know what to do...
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Get rid of the thought of suicide...... life is full of changes, some good, some bad....... in any case time allows the bad times to soften...... Try to talk to somebody you can trust (a friend or counselor) to help you throught this tough time...... At one point of my life I had the same feelings and I'm glad I didn't act on it..... my life is really good now.
Stop questioning yourself. Your sexual identity is only part of who you are as a person. Don't feel pressured to give yourself a label, after all, it is 'just' a label. Try spending less time focusing on that part and more time on the other aspects of who you are. For example, what do you enjoy doing? Are you a kind, considerate person? These are only a few things that, in my opinion, matter more than your sexual preferences. Live as you would without the question of your sexual identity and soon enough that answer will present itself to you, perhaps when you least expect it to.
Killing yourself is not the answer. It might be worthwhile for you to speak with a counsellor (or at least some degree of professional who can help you).
Gay, straight, bi, they're all labels. Just like a label on a purse. If you really are having feelings of killing yourself, you should go talk to someone who cares about you, NOW. But deciding what label you are is not something to kill yourself over-why on earth would that matter so much? I'm telling you, there's more in the world to kill yourself over than your sexual identity label.
There are so many things in life you’re going to miss out on if you do. I totally understand, but don't. Calm down and think it through. Think about all the people you'll be hurting. Killing yourself won't do anything to help it you will miss out on life. You matter to everybody and you were put on the earth for a reason. Death is not meant for you to pick when. You have a reason to be here just like everyone else and you are very important. Talk to someone you trust.
If you feel suicidal, please call the suicide hotline immediately.
1-800-273-8255
or
1-800-784-2433
http://suicidehotlines.com/national.html
The problem isn't whether you're gay, bi or straight. Sex is not the be-all, end-all of existence. Whomever you feel attracted to is FINE. You need to accept that in yourself, and learn to like yourself as you are, because there's NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.
Your problem is you feel like you will be rejected, or disliked by others. Being disliked is not a reason to kill yourself. There are millions and millions of people who will like you, who ARE like you, and do not care what your sexuality is. Those are the people you associate with.
Just relax. Take it from me.
I'm attracted to the person, not whether or not they have a penis or a vagina. It doesn't really matter.
I know it's easier to be a girl and question your sexuality, than a guy, but I still think you should look at it my way.
And besides. The importance isn't that you make up your mind on which box you fit in. The important thing is that you follow your instincts ^^
Dont even think about it anymore
dont label it as "gay" "bi" or "straight"
just go with WHO are you attracted to at the given time and dont think or care about their gender
you'll be happier once you can let go and stop worrying about it
There's no need to commit suicide! You are who you are. You don't need to worry about it now, when the time comes it will all be clear to you. Whatever makes you happy in life, you do. I'm sure there would be many people who would be sad if you weren't there anymore.
well i once didn't know what i wanted either (redhead) (blonde) (brunette) but i never would kill myself over it