I am a heterosexual 24 year old male. I feel like my sex drive rules my life and accounts for most of my decisions. I want to masturbate or have sex every single day and I can't help gazing at women that I find attractive and looking for a response back. I started masturbation when I was the early age of 9, lost my virginity @ 18. I had my first serious relationship when I was 19 that lasted for 2 years and had sex just about everyday. I masturbate about 2 times a day. Everywhere I go I'm looking for my next sex partner... I've had about 12-15 partners since the age of 20.
What can I do to bring down my sex drive and focus on my real goals in life?
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Update:Dnaffan, that's a good perspective thanks... I've also though about this... but it's nice to hear it from someone else
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you could try and see if there are any support groups in your area for sex addicts or chronic masturbation?? its normally not an issue as long as it doesnt get in the way of your day to day activity like calling in sick to work to stay home and have sex/jack off all day, your young so you are supposed to be horny but if its that big of a problem try finding a support group or rehab in your area
Wow, that's a lot of partners in a short time. The only thing you can do is stop, or at least slow down. You have to stop feeding your obsession or it'll never go away. Just keep busy, work hard, or find things that make you tired. You won't have the energy for sex or even masterbation if you spend all your energy doing USEFULL things. It will be very hard to stop and it will literally drive you crazy, but your headed down a path to herpes and an empty life.
honestly i would go get some help, like not in a bad way.. but it seems like maybe masterbating is a way to get rid of stress or something. you just need to find something else to do with your time and try to fight it i guess. hope ive helped!:)
I did see anything here regarding being in love. Is there a reason?