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Yes - this what old Freud called "sublimation" - converting that tremendous sexual energy into something more usable. Sexual energy is great - but Come On! You got it in buckets.

One way to do it is to parallel the sex drive with a drive for possessions.... for example. If you are going to have sex (and wee children), you're going to need a house and a car and all that. So that's what that energy should go for - nest building. Then if you don't find a wife after all, you'll have a house you can enjoy on your own. And if you do find a wife, then you have something concrete to give her.

You can do the same thing with jobs and social position - you kick butt to get up the corporate ladder because it makes you more powerful and more desirable to the opposite sex - bla, bla, bla.

Of if you work for yourself, you use the sexual energy to improve your skills in your job to make more money... to build bigger and better nests....

In mythology, the symbol of the energy which is free for YOU to use is Pegasus, the flying white horse. Perseus captures Pegasus by stealth - sneaks up on him - and then once he's captured the horse, Perseus can fly through the air - he can fly above everybody else. Very interesting symbol.

This may help you. That sexual energy can be transformed into sex appeal while dealing with women in business and life.

Let me qualify myself I am a 48 year old straight male hairstylist and educator. I was once where you are. It would be best for you to get involved with other professionals in a business setting(ie. a business networking group like "La Tip" google them).

Another source is to find a group of women that can give you wisdom (older women are nice for that) take a needle point class. Some times you have to go outside your comfort zone to find opportunities and wisdom.

Read the letter, "advice to a young man" by Ben Franklin (Google it). Advice from older women on money, life and sex may be worth looking into.

Robert Curtis