typical friendship problem?
so theres victoria, lauren, bethany and sammy and they all involve me in the convo at lunch but then act like they arent my friends(just dont talk to me) after. and victoria lies about who she likes so lauren, bethany and sammy will be her friend. and shes so mean to ppl right in front of them and she went to my school, and was not like this. she changed because of them. and hten sammy writes on laurens wall saying "omgsh i miss you, bethany and victoria" but notice, she doenst mention my name and i sit with them at lunch. so im just like really sad. and have no idea what to do.
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its just what girls are like they have to have one friend they can be little to make them selfs feel better. dont let it bother you and find some friends that will actually treat you like a friend and not a door matt. they blates are doing it cause theres something they are jealous about.
I guess people change. My best friend, well... she's still my friend, but we're not so close any longer. It's like I'm sitting with her during lunch, but she doesn't really talk to me like she used to and sometimes she just leaves with her friend. She doesn't do this on purpose and she does care about me, but not like she used to anymore and i had to learn to accept it, then move on. So i say well... you might have to give your friend some space, let her be with the friends she's comfortable with and just say hi to her but don't get too close because sometimes, she might not like it and if you provoke her it might worsen things. In awhile both of you will settle down. The person who can survive is not the smartest, but the one most adaptable to change =)
BELIEVE ME, I know what its like to be left out, as this is all happening to me. Im left out although I spend all day with my group of friends. I know how you feel. Teenage girls think as long as they are on the winning side, they can treat the other girl horribly and make her life hel* as long as it isnt her. This happens to all girls as soon as they go to a new school. Find new friends, your old friend will have to pay for it later.
well obvesly they are the popular girls cus if they are mean to yooh then ur not so find new friends