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looks do matter. Its a fact. no matter what people say it matters what you look like. especially in todays day and age..

But not everybody has the same Definition of attractive..to one person you may be ugly to another your drop dead gorgeous.. So Just live your life.. and be as happy as possible...

ps.. never with flavor

I think it does still matter what is in the inside, cause i would not go out with someone based on there looks. They could be the most hottest guy on the planet but a complete jerk and player, and i wouldn't stay for a second. So the inside count just as much as the outside.

If i wasn't attracted to him. I could not. How could you do that to someone. And personally, i would not want someone with me who didn't find me attractive. It would hurt. Its not a real relationship with out that type of intimacy. And chemistry. And it has to be real.

I have a friend who is doing it to someone. Shes been going out with him for like six months, and shes told him 'im not attracted to you' (personally if anyone said that to me, i would slap them and leave). And of course they have had sex, and though the fact shes not attracted to him, i know she loves him, like really. At least she is open about not finding him attracted. Though i still think she is in the wrong.

I think this whole look on attractive and unattractive varies from person to person. Some people are vain and superficial. Some may see the 'so not hot', as so attractive. Some can just be perfect. To me, the inside always comes first. You cant have an attractive guy, without a lovely heart.

Well recently I met this guy, he doesn't really take care of himself at all. Well I guess he does, idk. Perfect body though. He's forign and has a very heavy accent. God knows were he's from. He never shaves hes just... i don't know. I'm sure he's from Russia or Georgia. I've always seen him around but I would never say anything to him. I always wanted too though because he looked interesting to talk to even though he walks around like he's ready to kill someone.

Just recently I talked to him for the first time. He was joking around with me and talking in a differnent language. I started talking with him we both knew Russian which was really Ironic. He was nothing like I thought he was. His face expressions and the way he walks and dresses i thought he was some stuck up guy, mean, ignorant,sexist. I never see him talking to girls ever. All except me.....which yet again is strange.

He's so funny, has the greatest personality of all time. I find myself looking for him all the time now when I never see him. I can never tell what he's thinking or where he is. He's always somewhere differnet. He's a character. very mysterious.

but slowly I can't stop thinking about how fun he is and his voice and i think I'm really starting to like this stranger.

Looks can matter, because I could never ever want to have sex or be with a very very very obese guy. I would throw up.It just wouldn't work.

Flav, naw I would NOT and I don't see how those young girls do.

Answer this question.... have you ever been friends or aqaintences of someone and didn't notice one way or the other about their physical being? Did you later down the road start dating that person, fell in love with them and thought they were the most beautiful person on earth? Did you, then, ever break up with that person because you despised them and can't imagine what it was you thought was so special because pysically they're not all that attractive? Feelings for someone play a big part on how you view someone physically.

no no no no

Exactly what you said is true. I couldn't have sex with or kiss a girl that was terribly ugly. The personality is not B.S but looks do come first when looking for a girl (at least to me). I don't go around looking for the nicest girl but the nice, good looking girl.

I know a bunch of girls that are very nice ppl who have great personalities but I wouldn't date them because they are not good looking.

hell no! Looks are important. When you meet someone, what attracts you to them first is looks, personality you know nothing about. However, once I find out the personality sucks, I wouldn't be interested. I have some good friends that have great personality and I know if I was willing, would be interested in dating me. But as great as they are, I can't bring myself to be with someone I don't find anything attractive about physically. Chemistry is a powerful thing, without it, there's nothing.

no longer basically does elegance/attractiveness lie in the attention of the beholder, yet in addition, there Are females (me being one in each of them) who WILL observe a guy extra for his features than the rest. Ofcourse, there could be some style of chemistry/attraction besides, however the very meaning of "attraction" would not could be "bodily appropriate". attraction additionally refers back to the way the different person makes u sense approximately your self, and the features u see that would desire to entice you, or maybe the little issues that we take with none attention that may play a huge function like somebody's laughter, voice, the way they communicate or carry themselves and so on. So definite, truthfully, i'm specific there are attractive females who Will and might and might and Do fall for the no so bodily attractive men. The exciting subject is, the guy's different features, make him the handsomest person in the girl's eyes :).

My opinion is you can have a person as a great friend if they have a good personality, but it's the physical attraction that makes the person relationship material.

If a girl has really nice personality well then thats fine with me. Because you see, uglyness with me only goes to a certain degree.

She dont have to absolutly BANGIN. But if she looks like Growcho Marx. Ehhhhhhh cant do it.

I'm sorry, but attraction is very important to me. I have to be attracted to them. Even if he had a good personality. I'm shallow, I guess.