if u know in your heart how u feel, no matter hwo irrational something may seem to others and just stupid, who do u listen to? do u listen to yourself your gut and your heart even if that measn risking your life, or do u lsiten to others who have a more logical and one sided view of things when they dont know all the facts and are looking at the negatives and magnetizing them but not seeing the love that i feel. if i move out to live clsoer to my gf, i cant come back ever, but if i stay i wont be with her and shes gonna move on and everything we lvoe each other but i dunno how long itll last. i dont want to move out there and realize its not gonna work and then have no where to go, even now i havent financially figured out how to support myself on my own nor do i have all the skills, but i want to go out there and live closer to her, she is jsut waiting for me, she cant control what decisions i make and she can only doso much i have to figure it out on my own and depdn on myself.
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Why can't you move back? Is there opposition from family & friends to this relationship, or is there another reason (money, work, enemies)?
You can listen to all the advice you want, but in the end you have to make the decision that will satisfy you in the long run. Will this last forever? If your family is against it, will they eventually soften & accept my relationship? Which is more valuable? If the worst happens & it doesn't work out, can I take care of myself afterwards?
You only live once. If you think that you can deal with any possible negative outcomes, go for it.
Hi
first of all, Pl b cool.
ok..u love him but does she love u??and if yes, tell her 2 wait 4 u.
Go, first be financially strong enough, be mature. That girl will come 2 u but its only u who can make her life happy.Now u have 2 manage two lives, So just go......Dont worry!everything will b fine
The two of you decide. She may already have moved on. A soul will risk all for love, and in the end will know they made the only choice that for themself was right. But choose wisely.
i would say listen to yourself and your heart, make sure things are right with yourself b4 going and making any decisions, if shes not the right girl 4 u then you will no, dnt be to hasty in making this decision as if she aint right 4 u some one else out there will have your feelings in there heart if you get my drift
listen to people who are not so one sided. Post the whole problem here and let us help.
How long have you been with ur girl?
How does she feel about you?
Why can't you come back?
Let us know and we'll be a better help with your problem!
List your priorities.
List the after effects of any decision.
You will be in a position to decide yourself !
if love her very much go for it OK but if u don't know how do u fell then stay and more important if she wants you to go with her OK cuz u may get dumped
This guy Pete, he decides. Pete Sanchez, I think his name is...I've only met him once or twice.
I ALWAYS followed, and keep following my heart ONLY.