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They are either Jealous or are just stereotyping you as a bad person/mother 'cause of your age. If you are happy with who you are then tell them to go pound sand...

Hold your head up and don't let words hurt you.

I had two children by the age of 18, I loved and wanted them both (didn't plan them though, but they were the best surprises of my life) I was not married, and I got judged alot too. It doesn't matter, what matters is how you feel about yourself.

I too have a harder time getting along with other females. I try hard not to judge because I hate when I see others (or myself) being judged, but I'm sure we are all guilty to a certain extent of being judgemental.

Just be you, thats all you can do, and don't give anyone the time of day who can't except you.

i am 21 with my second on the way. i dont judge people but i do tell them like it is. like one girl is 14 and may be pregnant. i told her its a bg responsibility, which is it. alot of people critisize and i dont understand myself. i think people try to judge people because of their age, they dont realize you are probably more than likely more mature than the average 19 year old. people looked at me funny because i was 19 and pregnant and now im 21 i wanted my kids 2 years apart so did my fiance. who gives a crap what other people say, you want your kids. at least your not a 19 year old whos had 3 abortions. you have taken the responsibility because you wanted children. thats a great personality trait to look at. whoever tells you to keep their legs closed should keep their mouths closed....congrats on all the children in your life. you are truly blessed and they are truly miracles

thats the great thing about men is that they dont sweat the small stuff

When anyone post a quetsion on yahoo answer they are asking for peoples opinions if you are not interested in what everyone else has to say then why post the question? No its not fair that people are straight up there to judge but remember they dont get the full story either.

Women are bitches. Most women don't get along with other women, they may act like they do but deep down they wish the other would fall on their face. Yeah on yahoo I've seen plenty of people who judge teen mothers without knowing them. Same thing with on the street. I've seen a pregnant teen and people (especially old people) will be so rude to that teen when they know nothing about the situation. Maybe that girl was raped? Maybe that girl is older then what she looks? People don't realize that not all "adults" are mature adults. I have seen plenty of teen mothers way more mature then an "adult" mother. But people don't care, they jump to conclusions and base everything on age like ignorant jerks. Also a lot of mothers judge on this site because if you don't parent the same way they do, then you're automatically wrong. Lots of women on this site have this "my way is the right and only way" attitude with them. Don't let it bother you. It's not your fault their ignorant on your lifestyle when they know nothing about you.

I think a lot of women are judged harshly and return the favor. Anyone can criticize you if you are a woman, and I have found the favorites to do so are either older women or big, fat, hairy, old & bald men. So we turn on ourselves and each other - including you. I expect that the only reason more men haven't judged you is because they are not as interested in this section as women would be.

I personally believe to be a true friend and adult women we need to value each other as we are - to allow others to be who they are, think what they think, and feel how they feel. But that means we need to give ourselves permission to be who are we, feel how we feel, and think what we think - and that can be hard.

I don't really get along with females either and for that reason. On here though I think it is both male and female. They guys just don't look at pregnancy stuff as much so that why it seems like girls are meaner. Congrats on your kids though.

to some people the internet is the only place for them to ***** at ple just to feel good about themselves. ima girl and i dont judge. im more of a listener and i only judge when i know you. people can be such trolls, just ignore them hun, enjoy other people comments and make friends with real nice and complimentative females. (lol)

Women are always wanting to be the one in the spot light. Drama is in their veins. That's why I personally have stopped trying to find a true best girl friend. I don't trust women! So I agree with you

I totally understand. I may be a female but I sure dont get along with any of the ones that I know...it sucks. But oh well.