Why do I lose interest fast?
I've noticed that subconsciously get bored over someone, once they start to like me and I usually lose interest. It has messed up couple relationships for me in the past, so what could I do to stop this from happening?
For example: Lets say I like a girl A, I chase after her, eventually we grow feelings for each other, we go out.. Then I start talking to someone else (Girl B), I lose interest in girl A, start talking to girl B, causes conflicts between me and girl A, we break, and I go out with girl B
Most of my relationships are like that^ it's a never ending cycle... Btw I'm a freshman in college (also, I don't do this on purpose, it subconsciously happens, I just happened to realize upon it)
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I used to do that, too. It's usually a commitment issue. Figure out why you're afraid of commitment, and don't talk to other girls when you're dating someone. That's a common courtesy. As soon as things get though you'll want to start looking elsewhere naturally, but instead force yourself to work it out, and you'll have a better relationship.
It's also possible you just haven't found the right person yet. I was like that except for 2 long-term relationships...and even with those I had a hard time with not talking to other guys. Then, when I met my husband, it was really easy. I only wanted to be with him and I liked to hang out with him and talking to other random guys wasn't important. (: