whenever i look in the mirror i see a ugly face. my sister is the "popular" skinny nice girl that everyone loves and i always feel like i have to live up to that. everyday she has people coming up to her saying "ohh your so pretty" but that never happens to me. i wish people could see me for my personality and not my chubbyness. i mean i dont have like any self confidence and i really want that one person to make my day :( what should i do
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The truth is that the reason that they might not compliment you is because they do see your personality. And you sound like a courageous person admitting how you feel. I am sure that you have a great personality, but maybe your body language shows your insecurity and low self esteem. I hope that i can make your day with this advice. Today go look in that mirror and release all your feelings to yourself! And then tell yourself all the qualities that you like and love! We all have high and low points in our lives but the way that we get through it is love for ourselves and others. I used to look in the mirror every day of sixth grade and see an ugly girl, I used to complain about my face and try to fish for compliments. Truth is, the ugly girl that I saw wasn't my face or body, it wasn't who I was.. It was who I THOUGHT that I was and how I thought about myself. Everyone has a spark of beauty that grows as we get older. Remember to hold that pretty face of yours high for the world to see! Be who you truly and deeply are, show no fear. Just be happy with the beauty that you are. And I don't know if you watch jersey shore, but snooki is a big girl and she gets plenty of comliments. Being confident on the inside makes you sparkle and shine on the outside! Love yourself, you would be suprised to know who loves you.
I know how you feel..
I have the lowest self-esteem you could possibly think of..Lol
When I go on Facebook- I see people commenting on other's photos saying "Oh you're so pretty!" "That's picture is soo sexii ;) Lol"
I sometimes wish people would comment on my picture and say something nice..
Like there is 2 people that would- my best friends. But..I don't know..I would like someone random to say so.
Sometimes I think they're just saying to be nice- even though I appreciate it a lot.
I just wish someone would one day tell me I'm pretty and..I want to be able to tell that they mean it..Lol .
People always picked on me in school..and I have no idea why...I never did anything to them. I was just that quiet kid in the corner who never bothered anyone unless there was a teamwork assignment. But they just picked on me for kicks..they always found a flaw of mine to make fun of. EVERY SINGLE DAY they would bring it up..I wanted to punch them in their faces..Lol
None of them knew me. They didn't know what I truly was like.
My personality is simple..
I'm shy around crowds of people..
I'm only myself around friends..
I'm friendly, caring, and..I can be funny.
They just didn't bother to get to know me before tormenting me. That upset me a lot..
The only kids that seemed to get anywhere were the ones that cursed, started fights, and all that crap. (I live in a very ghetto area- maybe you've heard of it..Chester, Pennsylvania.. Lol) and I ahte it here. Everyone is the same..so I have a feeling I'm not gonna make any friends in high school..
But you listen- I'm not just trying to be nice either- you are BEAUTIFUL. There are gonna be people who are gonna come up to you and compliment you, trust me.
I have a "chubby" (she calls herself fat- but she's still so adorable and an incredible person X3) friend, she's my absolute best friend.
She doesn't worry about what haters have to say about her- she's popular just for being herself.
And I think you should stick to being yourself. People are gonna look past how you look and they'll make you happy. :)
You seem to have a great personality- and I can officially say that you're a gorgeous person because of that. Inside and out.
Good luck~
Remember, you're gorgeous. :D
Who gives a **** about what other people think?!You need to realize that you and everyone is pretty on the inside and outside.
it's all in your head, you are only going to feel pretty if you believe you are pretty. No one else's compliments are going to change the way you feel, only you can do that.
emme, your beautiful =)