Why do men look up porn?
My husband called me to tell me he knew he was in love with me because when he came home and I wasn't there to talk to he missed me but instead of touching me he does himself to porn and sex was down to once a year?
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I think lowercase got it right, we don't have to worry about satisfying porn. and hey, sometimes our brain goes into the "vaginavaginavaginavaginavagina.." mode. Which sounds kinda stupid but it's true! XD
I know for a fact that there's a good chance i'll end up the same as your husband, some of us feel like "I don't want to hassle my gf/wife or pester them for sex, so i'll just get off to porn or something else instead".
If a guy does that, then you kinda need to be more forward about sex because there's a fair-to-good chance that they're also thinking "I wish I could just go and have sex with someone" - and that isn't an overstatement.. I'm one of the most loving and loyal guys that I know, and if I feel like that.. then I can pretty much guarantee that 90% of other guys feel the exact same way.
This is also one of the reasons why a large portion of men, cheat.
Men are more visual than women. They like to see a womans body with nothing on. They want to see and toutch it at the same time. Most men like their woman to be shaved down stairs. It makes them more desireable and sexy to them. Men have a tendcy to keep their eyes open during sex and women will mostly keep their eyes closed during sex. Men want to see just what effect they are having on their woman. Men fantise while watching porn. Porn turns a man on and he need sex now not later. You need to do things and wear sexy underwear that will help turn him on. You should let him know that you are horny and want him. If you do not let him know what, when and where you want. Men are not mind readers. So to speak grab the bull by the horns and take charge and do not stop untill you get what you desire. Just come right out and tell him in crude words that does not turn you off what you want him to do to you. Good Luck.
Nothing wrong with looking at porn. But if it becomes obsessive and the person wants that instead of his real partner, that becomes a problem. Tell him! Don't just sit there and wait and wonder. When he is in the computer room, looking go in there and get on him. I mean, sit on his lap and show him what he's missing.
men look at porn because they are more easily stimulated by fantasy and pictures rather than the real thing if the real thing isnt on offer
we don't have to worry about satisfying porn
we're pigs
Because you women aren't hot enough.
Why don't you have sex???
hes gay