From some of the relationships ive noticed men seem to just get boared with the people theyve dated for a while, or just leave. Why do some men lose interest so quick?
I think sometimes they are immature and don't know what they want or know what they want and think that the grass is greener on someone else. Stuff like that? But I've known lots of couples who are married and are still together. Including my neighbors and relatives so maybe just the high school guys and or early college ones are like that, but or the guys that want to be perpetual bachelors (don't want to settle down yet)
I've known though cases where I lose interest because I wasn't very interested in them to begin with or thought I was ready to date and move on when in fact I wasn't. This is coming from a lady though, not a man.
Why don't you ask the guy you're thinking about in particular why he lost interest? I also read this one article about men that was also written by a guy that sometimes the woman is not attractive or pretty enough, but thats stupid because he's not perfect either and as my mom said, looks fade especially if you don't take care of yourself. Plus, there's also lots of ways to look good like plastic surgery to just a touch of make up. sometimes too if you have a career like my mom said, and make good money,
Then they are not worth to care about same thing happen to me but a worse situation then yours I was actually being tricked but is ok it happens less i didn't lose my virgin. Find guys who dont start relationship that fast you know why usually those guys who flirts a lot and starts a relationship without even knowing chances are is not going to work cause they fallen for the attraction after sex of their beauty they get bored with them. You need to communicate is not just the looks that matter something i learned. Guys don't go for looks is matter of communicating. If your interest doesn't suit his of course he will get bored and before i asked guys to hangout they all assumed i liked them because i didn't know better i thought it was ok to but it turns out territory guys called me desperate tried to trick me into sex.
If your an adult you'll understand what is love not beauty, common, right or wrong no such thing biggest mistake people make and is true.
Simple really: There are men who want to date and there are men who want to marry. Men who want to date have their reasons. Men who want to marry are looking for their life partner. Women do the same thing. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. There's a lot of aspects that goes into a relationship. It takes 2 to tango, as the saying goes. Men who want to marry ARE looking for someone who fits them and will date less and look more. Men who just want to date will do just so until ... (a million reasons inserted here). I don't think it's necessarily losing interest.
Honestly, if you are boring they will leave. If you don't talk to them much, or spend time with them they will leave. Do what hobbies they do with them, to stop them from getting board. If I get bored with a girl, because they don't do **** then I will leave and look for someone better. Some girls say because they don't give them sex, but I am a guy, and sex is the least on my mind when I am with a girl. I just like to spend time with them, and have fun. Also when a girl says "I am ugly" or you tell them you love them and they say you don't or you tell them they are pretty and they deny it. That just annoys the hell out of me. When something happends, and the girl blames it all on the guy, yeah that gets annoying. When a girl is WAY too sensetive that is annoying too. ETC you get where I am going.
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It's not all men. Just intelligent ones.
It's obvious from your writing style you have the mental ability of a 16 year old.
If you're 16, please don't be insulted. Embrace being young and free.
But if you're 21 or over, then by all means... be insulted enough to do something about it.
I think sometimes they are immature and don't know what they want or know what they want and think that the grass is greener on someone else. Stuff like that? But I've known lots of couples who are married and are still together. Including my neighbors and relatives so maybe just the high school guys and or early college ones are like that, but or the guys that want to be perpetual bachelors (don't want to settle down yet)
I've known though cases where I lose interest because I wasn't very interested in them to begin with or thought I was ready to date and move on when in fact I wasn't. This is coming from a lady though, not a man.
Why don't you ask the guy you're thinking about in particular why he lost interest? I also read this one article about men that was also written by a guy that sometimes the woman is not attractive or pretty enough, but thats stupid because he's not perfect either and as my mom said, looks fade especially if you don't take care of yourself. Plus, there's also lots of ways to look good like plastic surgery to just a touch of make up. sometimes too if you have a career like my mom said, and make good money,
Then they are not worth to care about same thing happen to me but a worse situation then yours I was actually being tricked but is ok it happens less i didn't lose my virgin. Find guys who dont start relationship that fast you know why usually those guys who flirts a lot and starts a relationship without even knowing chances are is not going to work cause they fallen for the attraction after sex of their beauty they get bored with them. You need to communicate is not just the looks that matter something i learned. Guys don't go for looks is matter of communicating. If your interest doesn't suit his of course he will get bored and before i asked guys to hangout they all assumed i liked them because i didn't know better i thought it was ok to but it turns out territory guys called me desperate tried to trick me into sex.
If your an adult you'll understand what is love not beauty, common, right or wrong no such thing biggest mistake people make and is true.
Simple really: There are men who want to date and there are men who want to marry. Men who want to date have their reasons. Men who want to marry are looking for their life partner. Women do the same thing. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. There's a lot of aspects that goes into a relationship. It takes 2 to tango, as the saying goes. Men who want to marry ARE looking for someone who fits them and will date less and look more. Men who just want to date will do just so until ... (a million reasons inserted here). I don't think it's necessarily losing interest.
Honestly, if you are boring they will leave. If you don't talk to them much, or spend time with them they will leave. Do what hobbies they do with them, to stop them from getting board. If I get bored with a girl, because they don't do **** then I will leave and look for someone better. Some girls say because they don't give them sex, but I am a guy, and sex is the least on my mind when I am with a girl. I just like to spend time with them, and have fun. Also when a girl says "I am ugly" or you tell them you love them and they say you don't or you tell them they are pretty and they deny it. That just annoys the hell out of me. When something happends, and the girl blames it all on the guy, yeah that gets annoying. When a girl is WAY too sensetive that is annoying too. ETC you get where I am going.
Because those men are only looking for sex