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I believe (generally speaking)...that men like raw sex...pure unadulterated...bump and grind sex....and most/many could have sex without the emotional aspect.

Women on the other hand (generally speaking) seem to require the emotional stimulation...or else it's a no go, or no good, or they feel used...etc.

Men= sex

women= emotional fulfillment w/sex

I really believe that many women, have sex for the emotional pleasure, which can lead to physical pleasure...and men have sex for the physical pleasure which can lead to emotional pleasure.

Not all of us though....some truly do enjoy sex...and love the male body...and crave it just like men do...some of us can appreciate raw animal magnetism sexual nature, and can separate that from emotions.

Wow-History Writer. If sex is so fun and enjoying why aren't women like you who tout about how enjoying it is clamor for more? And besides read Chazter's answer, I like what he says and the edit from the question asker explains a lot, it's the one at the bottom with the big paragraph. Delicious has a good point as well even though not exactly or completely what the quetion asker was trying to point out for the reason. Maybe the uncontrollabe pleasure and men not having that is because women like you are more submissive and don't show your desire for your man every once and a while and get all over him kissing, licking touching everywhere frantically, and pouncing on top, oh sorry, too much info but bring that out of him. And if he can't get going for sex until an hour after you can still stimulate his body during that period and he probalby would hard within less time than you think in between. All I know is that you sure show your true colors with that statment and even touting about that and putting men down and impotence. They probably can't get it up because of you.

Yeah I get what you are saying bro. Delicious made a good point but it's more than that. I think your saying that the reason women love sex less than men is not becuase of needing mental stimulation, but because of some having the male physique so on the bottom of the list for favorite or most physically appealing like you said each women leaving a list of eyes and other stuff and nothing about a man's cut arms or nice butt. Many have but enough don't. Of course women are emotional but you would think some had some appreciation of the male form because the one's I know like a cute butt or whatever or find a man;s broad shoulers sex, chest, etc. So while needing mental stimulation to get there, these women still find the male body quite attractive and find it quite the eye candy, which one still can even if needing mental stimulation, the physical appreciation is still there.

Therefore, women actually have the type of enjoyment along with pleasure and intimacy enjoyment love sex and are sexual in my opinion. Of course pleasure is important, but men I think don;t just love the connection and intimacy and the passion as well as pleasure and pleasing his girl, but also love the view of the woman;s beautiful curves, touching the lovely breasts, butt, legs, seeing her beautiful face and her lovely scent. It sounds default if a woman does things to a man's body if the body is nothing to them, which it seems like I explained it is for a decent amount when it so on the body for physicaly features or what enjoying. Sex is the carnal lust and desire and enjoyment of the opposite sex'es body and enjoyment as well as the other things I mentioned.

And when enjoyment of opposite sex'es body, one who loves sex or truly does doesn;t just love the opposite sexes body because she like or loves him, which that makes it more enjoyable, but because she loves and adores the male form and loves the muscles and contours and cuts and the look and feel of the hardness just like a man loving the look and feel of her softness during sex, but this appreciation from the woman not being default as in because she likes the guys but inherently or grew up sexual and loves the male body and meaning the "body" and not face or height.

I'm sorry you're getting such hateful answers; apparently some folks on here aren't as well mannered as they should be. Don't feel it necessary to explain yourself. Some people are very close minded, and just plain mean.

I think I understand what you're asking, and it's an honest question. I have heard this from men before.

I think do think there are a lot of women who are just so insecure about themselves that they don't feel free to just "let go" and actually enjoy themselves during sex. We are taught to be "good girls" and not do "this" or "that" because its bad, or gross or whatever...

Mostly I think it all comes from inexperience and insecurities...just from my own life experiences.

I do enjoy sex very much, I always have, but I do more now than ever. I learned to just accept myself and realize that I was my own worst critic, and no one cared about the tiny pimple on my butt (or whatever), or that my butt was a little jiggly, and just go for it. My husband and I thoroughly enjoy each other. We try to just have fun. We both lucked out the second time around (we were both previously married) by finding someone with equal interest in sex.

I don't know if this answers your question...I gave it my best shot.

Are you questioning whether women enjoy sex as much as men or is the question do women enjoy sex as OFTEN as men? Personally, I had a guy claim (as he was ending the relationship) that he felt like a circus performer, expected to 'perform' every night. That should answer you question - regardless of which way you meant it; some women do enjoy it and enjoy it often - and some don't. This goes for guys too ~

The entire issue boils down to this: is the person with whom the woman is having sex an exciting lover? Does he excite and stimulate the woman's senses; does he care if she is enjoying the sex.... in other words, is her enjoyment paramount for the man. If the answer is no to any of the above, how could she possibly enjoy it.

Any dog can have intercourse; it takes two people who care whether the other is enjoying the act to make an experience worth caring about.

at least that is how I feel.

There is a saying: the worst sex I ever had is better than no sex. Men say that a lot. To most real women, the worst sex they ever had is just that: the worst sex.

To be honest I don't know. I know as a woman, I love sex but I don't know if I love it as much as a man does because for one, I'm not a man so I don't know how a man feels about this compared to how I feel about it.

Based on my observation at work during lunch break and anywhere else, men in general talk more about sex than women do. That's all I can say about this, for lack of better wording.

I loved sex when I was younger, but even more so now that I'm in my 30's...I don't know why that is, but it could have something to do with the fact that my tubes are tied and I know I can't get pregnant, and perhaps it's something hormonal, as well...I don't know. But I've always been a very sexual, passionate person...highly receptive and sensitive, sexually. I don't think I'm really any different from anyone else...but then again, how would I know? It's not a topic of conversation that I've had with men or with very many women, either.

I only disagree with you on the basis that you are generalizing "all" women by how you phrased your question. I believe that a lot of women will be more receptive to and enjoy sex if she is stimulated emotionally rather than physically as opposed to most men being stimulated visually/physically.

Of course there are cases where sex is not enjoyable or even traumatizing for some women...i.e...women who have been sexually abused or raped.

Women definitely don't enjoy sex nearly as much as men do. Why else are men the ones that are always wanting sex?

It's actually harder for a woman to have an orgasm than a man.

For men, it's much easier to have an orgasm.

The "multiple orgasm" thing that some women here want to beat their chest about is usually not fully explained. For one, only a small percentage (13%) of women can actually experience a multiple orgasm. Secondly, a small percentage of men can use techniques to have multiple orgasms.

I'd also like to point out that women are more likely than men to have an orgasmic dysfunction (inability to have orgasms when stimulated).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorgasmia

Men can have orgasms quicker and easier, and I know a lot of women here hate to admit it, but it's true.

Another reason it's awesome to be a man.

Rainbow: Sounds like a lie. As much as women stereotype men as being "overly sex-crazed", you've never met a man that likes sex more than you?

Why is it that surveys showed that men on average will have 3 times as many sex partners as a woman?