So I have this seemingly perfect boyfriend. He's hot, in the top 30 of our grade, sweet, caring, and he says he loves me.
however,
he pulled a chair out from under me.
Should I stop seeing him?
Update:Black chair.
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If he pulled out a chair from under you then he's lacking a smart brain, obviously he didnt figure out you'd get hurt. I'd stop talking to him and ignore him for a while until he apologizes and swears not to do it again. Not only its embarrassing but its probably painful too.
Get rid of this idiot..
No you shouldn't stop seeing him just because of that. He probably did that for fun just because he felt like being stupid. Do it back to him if you get the chance or do something to him that will make him feel embarrased but not too embarrased to where he would want to break up with you.
If he's a sweetheart and treats you right besides the chair thing then keep him for now unless this becomes a habit.
It kinda depends in my opinion. If he did this when no one was really around and he was playfully joking, then I would forgive him because he was just playing. However, if he did that in front of a lot of people, and was doing it to embarrass me or as a mean prank to get people to laugh at me or something, I would definitely talk to him. I wouldn't decide to just stop seeing him until I heard his explanation, and then I would decide. Because if he is what you describe him to be, and he really loves you and cares, then you shouldn't end your relationship over this. It depends, and I hope this helped :)
Okay, honey - you are still in school. Love at your age means something different than lifelong, everlasting love.
He is just a pubecent teen, so I say; speak to him on the side and let him know that it embarassed you for him to do that; and to please treat you more respectfully if the word love is going to come out of his mouth.
He's either going to oblige and treat you better or stop saying he loves you. If it is the latter, than you need to stop seeing him.
What color chair?
If it was a black chair, it probably means he just thinks you're cute.
yes
Pretty shallow that you're considering to dump someone who tried to be funny. Stop being so sensitive!
Good Luck
YES! I would totally stop seeing him if he tried to embarass me in front of my friends, and the fact that you need to consult other people to provoke yourself not to, tells you what yo0u need to do. >:l
No! Uh that's silly. He was probably just trying to flirt with you. Don't take it offensively...
tell him, make him see what hes done wrong he prob doesnt even know (guys can be abit immature like that!!) and then take him shopping with u ;) LOL