close friends.......?
i have a few friends but they're not really close friends since i'm in a new high school. i'm always the 2nd or 3rd person to be with....it's hard to explain. but i need BEST friends. not just some people that's nice to me in classes. But everyone seems to have REALLY close friends and nobody really seems interested in being that close to me.. What should I do? (i'm a girl)
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I know exacly what you mean!!!
Im experiencing the same thing.
I wish i could help you, and me...
:)
Well best friends don't just come out of nowhere,Try to spend more time with the ''nice people'' in your class you'll gradually get closer to them in time.Talk to them more,Be friendly,etc.But don't weird them out by doing all that like you really know them that's creepy you'll have to start small and gradually go up.
It's hard being the new kid ! Give it time. You will meet girls with the same interests and you will get those close friends. It takes time.
you literally need to set your sites on someone you think would be good for that, i.e someone who's nice, fun, easy 4 u 2 get along with and u feel comfortable around, and just focus on "making" that person your best friend, just hang out with them, pair up with them for school projects, just stick to them. Good luck!
well, then i guess ill just have to join the Runner up club too.
ditto situation!
i guess focus on one or two great friends and get closer!