Hi I just need somewhere to vent. So basically I’ve recently started the Manhattan school of musics precollege. The only reason I’m there is because I got a lesson with a teacher who liked me before hand and said he’d try to get me in even though my auditioned sucked, I got through and was placed with him as my teacher. I’m constantly trying to improve and experimenting trying to do things differently with my instrument but I’m seeing no improvement and I’m so tried and upset and it keeps me up at night knowing I still can’t figure things out and everyone around me is so good and knows exactly what they’re doing and are a lot better than me. I feel so embarrassed asking questions because they’re things I should know by now as I’m in my mid teens and as someone who wants to pursue music-should REALLY be able to do! It’s so humilitating. Recently I’ve contacted a teacher and am auditioning for Julliards Pre (which I’m auditioning for and I tell people it’s for audition experience but really of course I want to get in) and I’m so terrified of embarrassing myself at the trial lesson and then again in front of the faculty because I’m just not good enough but I still want to push myself to do it. Also at the end of the year at msm we have a jury (you play in front of your instruments faculty) and they give you a letter grade. If I don’t get an A, my teacher won’t push for the scholarship I need to come back next year since it’s too expensive for my family.
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Have confidence in yourself!! You will do good. I know my Julliard crowd and a lot of these kids aren't even that good when it comes to articulation.
I recommend you play a slow piece. It is better to play something beautiful with little technicality then something virtuosic and mess up.
P.S
Go to the Mendelssohn show in Bruno Walter Auditorium this Saturday, Im gonna be there
There's a chart floating around showing how musicians spend their time and the biggest chunk of it, around 3/4, is "crippling self-doubt."
You're not alone.
Ok - a few things in your post are confusing. First - what is your instrument? And I wonder why you are taking about experimenting; a place like Manhattan, Juilliard, Mannes would be stressing a solid and very supervised curriculum. I have adjuducated thousands of students in my career, and they are graded according to their level of instruction received. The teacher who put you forward must believe in you, and you should talk to him/her as you have spoken to us here. They can help - we really cannot.
You might like to see how to spell Juilliard. You can't be all that interested in going there if you don't know how to spell it?