i was at a store when i saw my ex wife enter. i felt discomfort with her presence and made an exit. i doubt if she noticed me. i wonder why would i feel this way after 3 years of living separate and not having seen her for over 18months.
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No. No and No.
You are acting childish, and seem to have plenty of irritation and disgust, anger and dislike stored within you for her, if not a guilt complex. Otherwise, why should you make an exit? Do you owe her money?? .
This will do her no harm. Only will wear you out.
And remember, she has given you some very memorable moments of your life, which you still cherish and will do lifelong.
Befriend her, respect her as an individual. Send her SMSs on occasions. It costs nothing, but goes a long way.
Some of my husband’s ex flames are my best friends, and we share and laugh about his typical habits and idiosyncrasies a lot.
Well it was a surprise encounter and made you feel awkward because you werent prepared - plus if you are separated and not actually divorced then there needs to be some closure on your status towards each other. Be polite next time you bump into her (if the feeling is mutually amicable that is and theres no hard feelings) and then just walk away. Being an Ex doesnt mean that you have to hate the other person.
Are you over her? I f you are maybe you should have said hi. Like I have an ex husband and even though he insist on not even pretending I exist I always say hi If i see him cause I feel honest to myself I am not just gonna hide or pretend that this person didn't mean anything to me that's pretty pom pus to me at least say hi to the ex makes you feel good and besides sometimes I think I should not say hi cause he still has a thing for me but I still do it makes me feel like I am not lying to myself. Just a formal hi will do you should try it next time
I have not set eyes on my now ex-wife since October 2002, the day we split.. The chances of running into her are quite slim, though I did run into her father once. He gave me dirty looks but said nothing.
How would I feel? I guess were it to happen, I could say then, though I doubt I would feel uncomfortable, though she would probably not recognise me anyway unless we spoke.
Just because I see my ex won't bother me because I know that whatever happened between us whether good or bad is over. I look at the positive side and tell myself that there are better fish in the sea. The best is yet to come.
i guess more towards d feeling of awkward instead of uncomfortable .. well u don really need to do anything .. if she sees u jus nod ur head in a gesture as Hi i doubt she will walk towards u .. she mite feel d same way or she mite even do wat u did .. so be calm.. the nx time u bump into her .. there no need to hide urself and precisely u have done her no harm wat is bygones is bygones jus move on. a simple hello or a nod wld jus do
If she cums over to speak to u .. jus speak to her as normal and if u feel uncomfortable or awkward jus make an excuse to leave.. show her u are not runing away frm her.
I admit I overreact! I ran into him right this moment for the 1st time in years and that i stayed calm and did no longer freak out like I used to do. Years in the past whilst we broke up I ran into him frequently through fact he labored close to me and that i became going to college on the factor of the place he lived so we could come across one yet another frequently if no longer daily. One time I concealed at the back of an umbrella(wherein he nevertheless observed me and smirked at me LOL), the different time which i myself sense sorry approximately and nevertheless sense embarrassed to this present day I actually shouted "OMG MY EX!" and that i panicked, drawing great quantities of interest to myself he heard me and only exceeded over me through fact he became along with his new female buddy, i myself sense sorry approximately that yet I acted like that through fact i became so scared. the 1st actual time I ran into him I cried all day. i think of that's only the way we are! we are very emotional and no count how plenty we are saying "Oh I hate my ex, he's an ahole" we don't possibly propose it, that's a front. I admit i will continually love my ex even although i'm particular i'm over him now as that's been years and likewise I by no skill have been provided that "tingly" feeling after walking previous him right this moment like I used to continually get as quickly as I observed him, I only have been given quite some flashbacks as quickly as I walked into him right this moment approximately our dating and for something of the day it style of made me satisfied rethinking of all those sturdy situations we had at the same time. i will continually love him deep down I only could opt to by no skill see him returned yet that's by no skill going to ensue.
Last time I saw an ex I poured beer over his head and a one over the little slut he was with too.
Not at all. When I decided it was over, it was time for us both to move on. I didn't care then and I still don't care 30 years later what he does. More power to him.I got what I wanted,,,,,,FREEDOM,,,YAHOOOOO ZEEEE.
yea, i guess i do... but i want him to feel more uncomfortable ;)