So me and my bf broke up almost a month ago and i have been miserable. Well he seems to be all happy but this past weekend we were both together for a personal reason and he was kissing me and trying to hug me and stuff. And he keeps telling me i really do love you just not in love with you anymore. (which was the original reason we broke up) he told me he wasnt in love with me because we argued so much and i just wouldnt trust him. But I really want him back i would change everything. because he truly is my soulmate. He says he realized it when he didnt want to come see me one day (Which i found out is because we are past the obbsessive stage) dated 2 years. He felt he should be happy to see me but he said he wasnt. I feel we could get through it and get back together this wasnt any other guy. Im a pretty girl so Gorgeous guys have been calling and texting me since me and him broke up but all i want is him. I cant get him out of my head. It was my fault because he wanted to at least talk about it but i was kinda upset at the time i overreacted. Should i try to get him back and make an agreement to change or just let it go?
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I was kinda in the same situation a few years ago! When we started dating i lived an hour away for the first 2 years we where together! He would always come see me and be excited and take me out on the town and everything! And then i moved to the same town as him to be closer to him.....yeah after a while it all came to a stop....i would have to ask him to come see me and when he did he didnt act like he was happy to see me or he didnt like hanging out as much as we did when i lived an hour away....things just where different....i talked to him about it but he denied it and said he was happy to see me but i could tell things changed.....so i packed my things and moved in with my sister an hour away he was upset about it but i knew we needed time apart....(not breaking up though) and girl after that EVERYTHING CHANGED! He was always happy to see me he always wanted to come stay with me he really missed me! All it takes is some time apart to realize how much you miss someone and cant live without them! We have now been dating 5 years and engaged over a year now! Im not saying all guys are like that but time apart is good for a realtionship! Keep in mind if its meant to happen it will..if not then just remember you have someone who is really meant for you on the way! Good Luck and hang in there! I feel for you!
It sounds like you are still recovering from a pretty bad breakup. I think you are taking it harder than you realize, and this is leading you to be thinking about him and wanting him all of the time. It's normal to have these kinds of feelings after getting out of a long-term relationship (yes, I think 2 years is long-term).
But I think that you could do better. Take some time to recover from this, and then go out and find someone who really wants you, who is happy to see you, who misses you when you're gone.
You're obviously capable of giving a lot of love - find someone who will return that love!
he's not interested, let him go. he just wants the free cuddling and stuff. But he has been honest with you about how he does not love you. and he can say that after the obsessive phase so you have to trust him on that. this guy will be the one you let get away, but trust me there are more awesome guys out there and you will grow up and be a better girlfriend now. right now you need to learn to forgive YOURSELF. you need to just accept you were a difficult gf but you will do better next time. good luck!
Just let it go. To him, that special spark has left him. Im sure he still cares about you, but he knows that special feeling is gone. Just walk away with your head held high and don't beg for him back. You have plenty of fish looking to date you.
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You should let it go. You shouldn't be with someone who says hes not in love with you. Go out and have fun meet new people. he needs to know how it feels to be without you. If he realizes he misses you and is in love with you, he'll come back to you. and if he doesn't, then he didn't deserve you to begin with. don't be scared, go out and have fun if its meant to be he'll come back to you. Good luck. =]
a la modies. Girl you are twisted over this guy. Your obsessed with him. There are other guys out there, and half the fun is finding out which one is the one.
I'm not saying a word until I see the 10 points .....first !
I say let this one go. He just isn't interested anymore. At least he's finally ending it so neither of you waste any more time.
Try the mature route