Girl problems ...... Help :( ?
Okay i broke up with my ex girl around julyish of this year and.... Now ive had over 6 girls ask me out but.... It feels like im not ready or a relationship or something like i feel as if nothing wont be the same or if i wont have the same love for these girls than my old girl .... Can somebody tell me whats wrong please
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I broke up with my girl this July. Now Im a man that NEVER...and I mean NEVER sheds tears. But I missed her sooooo much that I cry Tears at least once a week. Ive talked to her and she said she'd think. Its been nearly a month now and Im still sad and waiting...sooo scared!!! I NEED her back!!! I LOVE HER!!! But uhhh, ya. My point is, maybe your ex got under your skin, talk to her. If you KNOW 100% that's not it, then patience. Time heals everything. Lets be patient together huh? I got to wait 4 an answer and you've got to wait to be ready to date again!!! Oh and btw I talk to the girl EVERYDAY!!! I think we're making great progress!!! She calls me "hun" =) <3
This is completely normal.
How long were you with your ex?
As a rule of thumb, I've heard that you should spend 2 weeks for every month or 2 months for every year you were in the relationship coping with a breakup...
EX: 5 month relationship = 2x5=10 weeks before ready for another relationship
4 year relationship = 2x4=8 months before ready for another relationship
Just let things settle a bit, it takes time. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be single for a little while after a break up!
what's wrong is that you can't let go... and not mature enough to realize that there are over 6 billion people on earth and that there is no such thing as just 1 person for you... odds are you may date some girls less compatible, but also some girls more compatible with you than your last girl friend...
but you will NEVER know until you venture out again
Beware of girls asking you out. They may be the exact opposite of what you're looking for. Make it clear you're looking for something simple or nothing at all. In the meantime, enjoy being single and figure out what's going on with you.
ps---come here often?
Go on a date with one of them, make it clear before that your just seeing if this will work, make sure they know it might not get serious because your unsure of your feelings, they will appreciate the honesty and try to help you (:
Either you still have something for her or you don't want to put in that situation again. Sometimes it's good just to be single!
U sence their intentions or u just dont like them.
I know how you feel but in the mean while hit it and quit it bro!:)