I hate myself. I'm fat, and ugly. I really don't get why I exist. All the girls at my school weigh like 90 pounds, and I weigh 120. They all get boyfriends, and I only know of like, one guy that's ever liked me. How do I feel more confident? I don't want to feel like this anymore :[
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Honestly? F**k them. I used to worry about my appearance and weight too in school, until one day I woke up and realized that twenty years from now no ones going to remember who dated who or how much you weighed. Just keep your head up high, if anyone asks you about a boyfriend say your parents say no, or say your happy being single and don't want to be tied down. Not every girl wishes they had a boyfriend. Oh and also you aren't fat, those girls are extremely skinny. They follow what they believe is right, tall thin girls with no boobs and no butt who have the figure of a boy. Women are supposed to have hips and breasts, those girls pelvis' would snap in half if they ever had to give birth. It's unnatural.
Get a pencil and paper sit in a quiet room litsen to soothing music. When your ready write all the things that u like about your self all the good qualitys you have things your good at things that make people smile this is for positive thoughts when your done look over your list it should be a lot bc you are a great person carry this paper around when your feeling down pull I put ans read them and say who cares look at all the great things I do am and this makes me me
It doesn't really sound like you hate yourself. It sounds like you hate your looks. I know that you're going to get a lot of responses like this, but don't count everything on what you look like. It's really cheesy to say this, but its true: It's what's on the inside. It sounds like you're in middle school? But that doesn't matter.. I remember how in middle school, everyone was changing so much just to look better. Really, don't think so much about what you look like, and just focus more on being a better person, and do whatever you want that will make you happy(as long as it doesn't affect yourself or others negatively), not change yourself so that guys will like you or you'll weigh less.. After, like in 8th grade, high school, you'll see that looks don't really matter anymore. I remember wanting to be prettier in middle school, but after getting into highschool, you find new friends not because of looks, but because you truly get along and you like each other. And don't worry about the guys...theres billions of guys out there, dont worry about them so much.. later, like in highschool-ish, they won't think so much about looks, and theyll just want to find the person right for them with a nice personality :)