I feel like such a loser? ?
Okay, lately it seems whenever I ask my boyfriend if he wants to come over he already has other plans. He will then feel bad and I end up feeling like a loser. I never tell him that. For example, I texted him while he was at work asking if he wanted to come over after. He appoligized and said he had plans with his two friends. I told him no problem. But, honestly it does bother me because I feel like such a loser asking him and then being rejected. What to do?
PS he does really like me and isn't ignoring me or anything
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I had this same problem. He is trying to get out it seems like, to be with his friends. If you want to feel less like a "loser" then see some of your friends when you know he has work. Be the one to say you have plans instead and maybe he will get to feeling like you do and finally get to talk to him and see him. :)
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Let him be. He's not going to want to hang with you all the time. He wants to hang with his friends. Tell him how you feel if this is going on for awhile . And why do you feel like a loser, Go out hang with your friends. Don't put pressure on him. He loves you, and if he doesn't understand your feelings then he isn't a good boyfriend. But sometimes people need space.
Consider the following: Do you think he puts his friends before you?
I think he should at least give up a day of hanging out with his friends and spend it with you. Don't be frightened to speak up about what is going through your mind!
Be a tough woman and have a talk with him that you guys should at least spend a day together every week!
tell him that, just say that you like he is spending time with him friends but you would like to hangout sometime soon so to let you know when he can