Okay this question might come off kinda silly, but when you first moved in with your spouse, were you kind of ... I dunno, like hesitant I guess you could say, to go to the bathroom around them? And I don't mean pee lol. Because I will soon be moving in with my fiance when we get married, and I've always been really bothered by doing that in public/in close proximity with other people... please tell me I'm not alone lol.
Update:To answer your question Kassey,
I have heard him go poop like once haha but I sure have smelled it many many times, and I always crack jokes about it to him and he just laughs. He is very open and crazy sometimes. His poop always seems to smell the same... kinda like blahhhhhh gag me haha, but i would NEVER leave him for that, i love him and his stinky ways :)
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YOU ARE SO NOT ALONE.. I THOUGTH ABOUT THAT TOO.. IDONT EVEN LIKE TO POOP AT MY MOMS HOUSE WHENI LIVED THERE.. AND THEN WHEN ME AND MY FIANCE MOVED IN TOGETHER I WAS LIKE OH MAN WHAT IF I HAVE TO POOP AND HES HERE.. LOL YOU WILL GET USED TO IT.. I PROMISE.. NOW I POOP IN FRONT OF HIM LOL I DONT EVEN CARE IF THATS NORMAL TO PEOPLE OR NOT!
I thought about this too...
This is a tough question to try not to get into details, but I don't think I want my fiancee to hear/see me use the restroom. I understand that when I'm married we become like one and nothing is hidden but this is still something I would like to have my privacy on.
I would feel embarrassed to use the restroom in front of the one I'm trying to impress. Yeah that's really embarrassing now that I think of it, I believe it would almost be better since I'm a guy to go outside and use it on the side of the house or tree in the backyard oppose to being heard/seen by my fiancee.
Can I ask you a question? Just out of curiosity what would come to your mind if you heard your husband using the restroom? Would you be gross out by it and want a immediate divorce lol? I'm trying to get a woman's perspective on this so I can better prepare myself.
Very good question, thank you for asking it.
We all go through that at the beginning. Just make sure to always close the door, flush the toilet several times, and have some air freshener and candles in the bathroom, to get rid of any "unwanted smells".LOL. Funny question, but no, you're definitely not alone.
That is normal. My husband and I bought a home with the bathrooms apart. He likes his privacy in the bathroom too. I think that couples get along better with 2 bathrooms. No fighting over the potty place. My husband has a tidy bathroom and I haver curling irons and cosmetics. We have heard each other poop so don't worry.
There was an episode of seinfeld where George and Jerry were trying to determine if George had a girlfriend or was just sleeping with this woman. The deciding indicator was that George would pee in front of her.
Yes, it's something that you relax into.
I used to be the most concealed person when it came to that sort of thing, but my husband is what you might call a "free flinger". It took awhile, but eventually I just left the door open and we now have conversations while "natural" things are happening. Come on! It's a natural thing. So what? If you're uncomfortable with it then don't do it. I'm sure he'll understand. It's certainly not a requirement of marriage. Different strokes for different folks. Got to tell you though, there's nothing like making your guy say "Damn baby, what the hell did you eat?"
I remember my hubby not wanting me around, he'd close the door and lock it. He relaxed after a while.
I had a friend who wouldn't do anything around her spouse. She would wait for him to leave the house before she would do any bodily functions, only one day he forgot something and she felt he caught her. I think she got used to it. The first time he saw her vagina was when their first child was born.
there are just some things that i feel you should do in private and all by yourself..i absolutely do not want to be in the bathroom when he is "fumigating" it..and i know he feels the same when i am in there...look,,you guys are going to share everything,,and yeah from time to time if there is only one bathroom there may not be any choice,i mean when ya gotta go ya gotta go...but,,,when you don't have to share it,,don't....you are allowed some privacy still...
I think its normal to feel the way you do but once your married and you two begin to start building your life as husband and wife those thought wont even cross your mind. If you two have a great relationship and as your love grows it won't even matter.
I am so completely grossed out by some of the people answering. They sh!t with the door open while talking to their husband? That is F-in NASTY. I am not like that & neither is my husband. He does his business while I'm still sleeping, I do mine when he's in the living room making coffee & turning on the news. It's not like we don't know what's going on in there but I have candles, incense, bath & body works sprays, you name it, and we give each other privacy.
I can't believe someone said her husband will ask her "damn baby what did you eat today". THAT IS THE CHICK THAT WILL GET CHEATED ON. Mark my words. Because that is F-in gross. Why should you expect someone to want to screw your sexy @ss after that? PLEASE. Can someone say TRAILER TRASH? If you're just a pig in your everyday life then you'll be that way in your relationship. If you're modest & have some sense of decency & self respect then you'll be THAT way in your relationship. Eww. Just eww.
EDIT: Go ahead & give thumbs down because whoever that nasty chick was she deleted her answer. Still gross. GROSS.