I had these experiences over the course of a few months. These are in no particular order of timeline
I appeared to have a ghost that's shy, and one that approaches me..
A tuppoware lid, really strong and sealed tightly flew off when no one was even within reach
While alone downstairs I heard footsteps come into the room, but when I looked behind me no one was there.
A few other people in my family has seen a "staticy" figure, blurry dark shadow, including myself.
My brother and I both heard our names being whispered.
During an evp session by myself, the "shy ghost" I assume was, would answer none of my questions except for indicating that it wanted me to leave ("do you want me yo leave? knock once for yes two for no.") and when I played it back, I heard something I didn't hear after I introduced myself. It was a long, steady whisper saying 'leave'. I think I heard it.
Once, while making a snack and the fridge was broken, so I went to the spare fridge in the back and when I came back I saw a shadow that ran into the other room.
Once while sitting in bed with the lights on at night I saw shadows moving swiftly along the wall (my bed against the same wall) and a loud hum, like the one described in our previous home in Kokomo, Indiana, where the famous hum is. It wasn't a bug or a car, those do not sound like this. I was too scared to look, and I could barely move. This went on for a while.
A few times I see a girl dressed in black, wearing a hat. I see her for a split second, she is the shy ghost, and the one I saw in the kitchen.
I had more I think but I can't remember them all.
Why has my activity stopped?
Why do I encounter the shy ghost more, instead of the few encounters where it appears the ghost wants to approach me?
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At times ghosts and spirits can have a personality of their own and be transient as well. They can come and go without any notice and this is more the case with an intelligent ghost or spirit. They can follow or attach themselves to a particular individual for what ever reasons and then all of a sudden disappear just as they became attached in the first place. I would not immediately conclude that this is the case with you but this is but one possibility. It could as well be that you had a poltergeist encounter and this is can be more of something that emanates from a particular individual and not like the intelligent haunting. It can cause, as you have described, an array of activity such as things being moved, doors opening and closing and audible anomalies such as footsteps . The poltergeist is more common with both males and females mostly during the teen years. Dark shadow figures are very commonly known as "shadow people" and they can be seen briefly usually out of the corner of ones eye. They can dart around and be seen in a full bodied form of the human figure. These are as well transient beings and can disappear just as they arrived. They are not like a ghost or as an intelligent haunting but some other type of entity that is quite mysterious . If you are not experiencing any current activity that is probably a good thing but I would be on the look out as you never know if and when they could return. Good luck and take care.
I like this question very much! Interesting! My answer is that if you want to contact with the ghost again is lie on your bed with the lights off, no lights at all. Door closed, absolutely dark! Only you lying on your bed with the "shy ghost" if she comes. Try talking to her more. Maybe she's a little upset/ depressed. Cheer her up. She's like other girls too. If she tries to come closer to you, come closer to her. Don't be afraid. She's not gonna harm you. Say sweet things and prob she'll let you stay. Man, my cats are making shocking cage sounds lol! xD
Good luck!
ghosts will sometimes leave and harass other people if they have entered the ghost's domain. if there is absolutely no activity for a while, check with people who visited your house lately to see if they have experienced anything weird, or maybe your ghost just felt like following someone you don't know who strolled past your house one night (amazingly enough it's been known to happen!)
so there it is guys, if you don't want a ghost stalker, don't walk past haunted houses.
hope any part of that helps you find the answer
your gift may have stopped because you sounded scared? and i dont know but if you chose to ignore this so it would stop? you can lose it. ever heard of 'use it, dont lose it?' i like to think of it that way. but you have a gift, i wish i had. all i can do is sense them and they sometimes come into my dreams. but embrace what you have bro, its rare.
Stick your dick in it.