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my friends wants to suicide & i really dont know what to do now!
she says she's waiting for something bad to happen to her because she doesnt see the point in living anymore but i know that she would do kill herself. but whats stopping is that she doesnt want to do that to her mum. but.. im really scared she'll do it anyway
obviously i cant just not do anything & i was going to talk to the counselor and people like that but i called her yesterday & she said that if i try do anything to stop her, she'll "be ready". which basically means she'll just suicide right there and then.
so **** i really dont know what to do now
& im the only person that knows about this. she only told me & ive asked her if she could tell someone else too (so i can talk to someone about it) but she says she cant, and that telling one person is too much already.
i really dont know how to handle this ><
help please? i dont care if you dont have experience with this stuff id just like some opinions & what you would do.. thank you so much ><
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tell her mom. Shell know what to do.
Tell a counsellor. I know it's difficult but seeing as she already told you means that she /wants/ to be stopped, it's the sensible thing to do.
And you can't carry the responsibility for her life.
Suicidality is a really bad disease and it what's worse is that it makes being suicidal look logical to the person who's suffering from it. Like addiction, this includes a lot of acts to keep up the status pro, most of which can be manipulative, deceptive and hurtful to other people. But it's a disease, it can and has to be cured.
EDIT: I do not agree that suicidality is egoistic as in the twisted thinking of suicidal people it actually will be a relief for everyone else when they die. And no, the girl's mom will most likely /not/ know what to do. She will blame herself, she will be helpless and overwhelmed, she might become angry with her child and this might very well escalate the situation.
Go to school. Think of something to make you cry,and then go to the counselor. Tell,the counselor then!
Ask the counselor to tell your friend they have reason to think she is depressed. Make sure they don't say "Suicidal!"
Then if she asks you,tell her you didn't tell. You have no clue why they'd think she was depressed.
Hopefully,she'll fall for it.
But just to be on the safe sorry,ask the counselor to call her mom and tell her mom to make sure theres nothing she could use to do this,when she gets home!
Please,help your friend.
They say sometimes all it takes to stop this is just having someone to talk to. You need to make sure she also,knows that she can talk to you any time. Tell her something like"If you get sad,you can call me at 3 in the morning!'
Tell her you love and care about her and that if she is going to kill herself,please wait alittle longer for you. That may save you some,much needed time.
I hope I helped.
Suicide is the most selfish thing anyone could do. Your taking your own life only thinking about yourself. You don't care about what will happen to people after you die. Tell her this. Go to the counsellor and say she's used black mail against you saying if you seek help she'll kill herself. Then they will take immediate action. This is a serious issue. Get help as soon as possible.
come on i am telling myself everyday i am waiting something bad happen it is one year but i didn't suicide! she is just a spoild girl like me.. it is one year i didn't suicide (just once but i didn't die) i promise you, ur friend will never suicide because i didn't....(just once), lool
something bad happen like what? being alive is something very bad she wants worst then this? she cant find worst then this so she will never suicide!!!
Stop her! call a doctor!
No, no, no... please stop her. Suicide is a selfish act and you go to hell