Is it possible to find love in someone who loves you the same way instead of settling? What I mean is I'm tired of waiting to find love and nothing ever works out. I'm tired of trying to keep faith but it never happens. I'm almost 20 and all my friends have at least found a guy who asks them to be theory girlfriend. I have boys that like but I can't make myself like someone when I don't. My mom says that I should give the guys don't like chances and I will marry someone who I least expect. And I HATE!! when she says that. And they say a guy knows when he's going to marry a girl when he meets her. But are they're ever any circumstances where the girl is the one where she knows who she's going to marry?? I want to fall in love with someone because its true love not because they're good for me and just because they like me. Is this possible? I'm really depressed. Everyone tells me how beautiful and amazing I am and I still havnt found someone. What's the deal?