Well me and my exboyfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago. Now he wants to be friends. And I know I'm not over him (I still think about him constantly, dream about him, talk about him) and I'm still hurt but I did agree to be friends. But now he's telling me that he misses me and that things aren't the same and that he's just not happy ever anymore.
I know i have been feeling the same. but what do i do?
Update:He broke up with me because he didn't want a relationship anymore and that he just didn't want a commitment. He also told me that he couldn't make me happy and he just wanted to find himself. He said that he couldn't find himself with a girlfriend. We went out for almost 2 years. I miss him a lot. But idk if i really would want to put myself out there to him. I don't want to get hurt again. I wish i had a time machine. haha.
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Talk to him. listen to him, be there for him. tell him how you feel too. maybe he just needed some time and space to figure things out, alone time, and you two will get back together. If not, its always better to be friends than enemies.
Im goin through da same situation but da only difference is im wit some one else now but it not da same when i was with him. But i believe if u are young and really still have feelings for him u should give him another chance. What do u have to lose anything deserve a second chance and if yall break up again u can at least said u tried it twice. But three times isnt really a charm. So be brave and try again!! Good Luck
Ask him if he wants to go back out. This happened between my and my boyfriend when we first started dating. I think we broke up 3 times and each time we didn't stay broken up longer than 2 weeks. And we are still together 9 years later.
You take it slow and stay friend for a while, you will take your time and get to basically know him all over but don't always be available to him. You still might love him, but it's been 3 yrs some people change and some don't.
well usually from what ive experinced and seen when you break up your heated up but then you realize you still like each other. you should prob. tell him you feel the same and want to give it another chance. the worst that could happen is he says no. or you both are happy again :)
Why did you break up in the first place, if it is not because of another girl or violence, why don't you two get back together?
Well, listen to what your telling yourself. If you like him, go ahead date him, if you want to. But i would say if your thinking about him and always dreaming about him, than you like him. But that's just my opinion, you know yourself better than i do. Listen. Good luck!!!!
then why diod you break up for? .. he just wants to keep you attached to him and at the same time do whatever he wants somewhere else..otherwise he would be with you
Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
tell him this.