what do you do when your pretty much crazy about a girl and you know she has feelings for you....but the reason you guys dont get together is for the fact that your friendship is to strong and dont want to jeperdize that....thats my situation.. we hang out every day...and do every thing with each other...we had one conversation about getting together like a year ago...but we realized our friendship was so strong that we didnt want to F it up by getting together then breaking up or something...through the years she has seen all my g/f and ive seen all her b/f and im kinda realizing that the reason our other relationships dont work out is because they dont match..and its weird cuz now im falling more for her ...but i dont want to ruin what we have already....but at the same time id feel bad if we didnt get together and she got another b/f....i tell her all the time i dont like her b/f's .....but anytime i have a g/f she gets mad all the time and stops talking to me...... i dunno its fustrating...i guess my question really is how do i lose these feelings i have for her....cuz i do want to be with her.....but then i dont and i know the dont part weighs more in the favor for the long run
..thakns
Answers & Comments
Text her and tell her how you feel. I really think you two might have something special- you need to at least give it a go. I thi nk you should try and get together, if it doesnt work your friendship should remain strong if you dont part on bad terms. But if you try to deny what you have, you may possibly lose out on the best relationship you'll ever have.
You guys would be a great couple, because you already know so much about each other. You'd be very close to each other, and if you don't break up over something stupid (usually the guy's fault, sorry.) then you can still remain friends after the break up.
dude just be with her take that chance even if it ends up in a breakup at least smile because a relationship happened