guys are either not noticing me/not interested or use me and then throw me away like a used tissue and I'm always blindsided when guys screw me over, i always assume that they're honest and truly into me. Im shy and not very confident, I'm also very nice almost too nice, could it be the reason or the way i look?
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Im 21 and don't even feel like dating anymore because I've been hurt too many times
also i NEVER approach guys because I'm too scared of being rejected and always assumed that if a guys doesn't come talk to me he's not interested, but do women sometimes have to make the first step? the only guys that approach me are ''bad boys'' that are the opposite of shy with no manners. how do i get normal guys to be into me?
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1. Bad guys go to u coz of ur low self esteem they can sense that and they use it to their advantage.
2. Be more confidence...if u dont feel confident then ACT confident. You will send the right signal to the right guys. Dont rush things ur still young. When ur ready for ur prince charming he WILL come. And when he does u will by then know how to handle him. Hope i was able to help 😃
Guys love confidence! I know it can be hard to build up, (believe me, I've been there and I'm still going through it) but just be a confident, uplifting person! Also, don't be afraid to go up and talk to guys! Men love it when women make an effort! And Lastly, the reason why you may attract bad boys is because you're pretty and have a nice body. So, remember, don't reveal too much.... Because only the pigs go for that ;) Buuut Most importantly, NEVER change yourself for a guy because if you have to, he's definitely not worth it!!
Hi there,
First thing first, its nothing to do with the way you look! Sometimes being too nice backfires as boys pick you out as a weak point! The best thing to do is to keep going, not to give up and be confident with yourself. To get normal guys to like you simply go up to them and speak to them, if there interested then they will reply. You dont want to come across as easy, i think thats the main reason you attract the bad boys because they look to use you,
Be confident!!
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If you look confident, (no offense) without revealing anything, then you can get attention. You look amazing. I would date you, you know. You look like Sarah Jessica Parker
Well you're not ugly, maybe they are intimidated by your good looks or maybe you don't act interested enough for them to even make the first move.
You're really really pretty & I feel the same way girl! :-( It sucks but whatever I'm just going to wait until someone good comes along.
your extremely pretty ......boys are to nervous to approach you I think