BF problems?
So this guy has liked me for a month or so and he liked me ALOT. Like a ton. So on wednesday we finally started going out. Now I like him SOOO much. Since going out I feel we have kinda been talking less and he dosent hug me or hold my hand or anything. Like in class he will come sit by me, he may not talk but he will stand by me or something. Hes one of the most popular guys in school so he cn get another girl but I am really confused becuase I know he liked/likes me a ton! Is he just scared to make the first move or what. Please help me this is killing me to go through this confusion! Thanks!
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The awkward beginning phase! The relationship is new and you both are still trying to get use to the concept you're going out. He's probably nervous to try something because he doesn't know what you like. (he might be afraid you dont want to hold hands or cuddle.) If he comes by you and stands there- then he definitely is still interested. DO NOT get nervous he doesn't like you and break up with him. That's a mistake you'll regret. Just try to feel comfortable around him when he comes by you- smile at him and put your head on his shoulder. if at all possible, let him know you're ready for him to make a move (flirt A LOT and maybe touch his shoulder or chest playfully) things will work out, it just can be weird at first:]
Whats the problem? Your going out with a popular guy that you like a lot. Yoru confused because now he's not talking to you as much? Then think of things to talk to him about, why cant you make conversation with him, why does he always have to initiate it. You know it could be that he was just pursuing you for the thrill of the chase and now that you said you would go out with him then he's not interested anymore. Why dont you hold his hand or give him a hug when you havent seen him for a while??