I feel like a stereotypical teenage girl asking this but... I need help. Two of my best friends like the same boy as me. I mean why wouldn't they? Hes perfection! But what should do about it? Also...we are on break right now so I wont see him this week and he is going on an extended vacation so I wont get to see him for at least two weeks.... and back to my friends liking him... I think he likes me the most out of all of them but I'm not sure. I think I like him the most out of us. One of us only likes him for his body, and I don't think he likes her much at all. The other on likes him a lot and says shes had a crush on him since fourth grade but I don't believe that. I don't believe it because I don't think you can have crushes that early because hormones don't start acting up until later. We have each others phone numbers and I want to talk to him but I don't want to start a conversation and be annoying...ya know? My friends also say that I don't make it seem like I have a crush on him but I really do because he is so nice. For example in health class we were playing seven up, and he was one of the seven. The three times he was up he chose people who are normally outcasted and not usually approached. And he is one of the smartest boys in our grade. Intelligence is a big thing for me because I am very smart. He also has a body and face that is... easy on the eyes... but that's the cherry on top and not a huge deal for me.
Please help what should I do for these two weeks and about my friends?
thanks in advance
-VWN
Update:I know him pretty well... we've been in the same school since 5th grade and are in some of the same classes... he even sat behind me in math last quarter(assigned seat) and he asks me for help on homework( very often) during our study hall( have that together too)
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I think that you should text him over the break, just say anything. and about your friends, I would just try to get to him first. I know that might sound obnoxious and snobby, but honestly if you like him the most and he likes you the most, then why not?
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I understand how you feel, but the boy should be off limits to you and your friends to prevent drama. I know it sucks, but would you rather loose a crush, or some of your close friends?
I say all three of you should fight one another. The winner gets the guy. Guys like when girls fight over us. Its shows that you care, and are loyal and we consider you our main girl.
i think you should just say hi to him and if he doesn't t respond don't say anything by text and for your friends i think you are the one who truly likes him and if he doesn't really like them then don't bother trying to change them