I don’t have big problems in my life and even if I have I don’t see the need to fix them! A couple of weeks ago I broke up with my boyfriend! And everybody insisted that I should start seeing somebody to make me feel better so I did! This new guy it’s a good guy! But I don’t know what’s wrong I think he is cute and everything but I can’t feel anything! Then in my school I have homeworks and exams and I know I have to do something about it! But I can’t! Everything sounds like I don’t care! Didn’t feel like doing anything the last couple of days! Besides watching tv in bed! I don’t even feel like eating anything! I know it sounds stupid! Cause I’m healthy I have my family and friend and a really nice guy who likes me! But I can’t help feeling horribly bad like there is no reason for me to be in this world! If I would change anything not being here! I know I’m being so dramatic! But it’s horrible the way I feel! I’m happy or sad it always looks the same!!
Answers & Comments
I'm a guy so my advice might not be as good as most girls but imma gonna try. To me it seems like it was too early for you to start doing things after your breakup :(. Breakups are tough and they need time to heal. "A broken heart is like a broken rib, nobody can see it but the pain is unbearable every time you breathe." Psychologists say that however long you loved someone will be the same amount of time it takes to fully get over them. I think that people just pressured you too early to move on with your life and so you skipped one of the stages of breakups (depression or hopelessness or something) and now this stage is being exhibited in your everyday life style and your new boyfriend. What I advise you to do is to take some time alone in nature or something and think about what has happened and how you feel right now and what you really want. It might feel bad but its something you have to do. Then once you've think you've fully gotten over it or feel better you can go your boyfriend/friend/family member to comfort you. This is what I think will make you feel better. But like I said I'm just a guy and this is my guy perspective so I don't blame you if you don't agree, but I hope this helps somehow! :)
I'm sure we all realize how empty we are, especially after having all the things that are thought to make us happy. Yet some of us don't realize that something more deeper is missing. It's because God created us for His glory and so we wont feel complete until we accept Him into our heart. Repent to God, accept Jesus into your heart, and be baptize. You will not be truly joy or complete until you connect with the creator, the Father. May God bless you with His love, joy, and peace.
May be you are taking things for granted. Appreciate the things and possessions you have. Then you may not feel that empty.