How to compromise on PDA?
I really dislike PDA, I dislike holding hands, or hugging in public and hate kissing in public. However, my boyfriend likes it. He likes to hold hands and such. He respects my dislike for PDA and never tries anything, however I feel bad because I know that he really likes it, so how do I every now and again surprise him with a little quick tasteful PDA? I am unwilling to hold hands ever, so that is not an option. Thanks!
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I'm with you, and dislike PDA. My boyfriend likes to hold my hand when we're walking through the halls at school and kiss me before every class, blah, blah, blah. I let him some of the time, but not a lot. I feel uncomfortable and like everyone is watching us. But if we're at the mall or somewhere still public, but not like, overly public, then we usually hold hands.
But anyways, a hug or a kiss on the cheek every once in a while would be good. :)
I hardly feel like holding hands or hugging is "PDA" in the sense that anyone around you would be uncomfortable. Why are you so against holding hands? This is something you need to talk to him about.
If you really don't want to, don't feel you have to. Anyways, if you really want to surprise him with some PDA there's nothing wrong with a quick hug, kiss on the cheek or even a quick peck on the lips.