I'm almost 19 years old and no matter what guy I date or how much I like him, I always feel as if there is something missing from my attraction to them. At first I just thought it was only because I didn't like the guy enough, but now I know for sure that's not the case. I have never felt the need or want to kiss a guy and so on even though I just go through the actions. I just feel as if I should be feeling more of a desire for the other person but I don't. Please help me know if this is normal or if there is perhaps something wrong with me. (And please don't say it's because I'm attracted to girls instead of guys because I'm not.) I just do physical things for the guys because I know they like them, but I don't like them. I don't especially enjoy any of it and during kissing/making out, I find myself bored and want it to end as soon as possible. This just doesn't seem like it's normal at all, so I just hope that someone else might have an answer to my confusion.
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dont listen to negativity ok its completely normal because your still innocent in the sexual department, your not ready to have kids and be married, which is how it is supposed to be!!! join a church if your not already which i doubt by the way you talk and meet alot of other people like you and not to mention married couples who went through the same thing as you are now, God has a plan for you dont waste your life on loser and meaningless sex
There's nothing wrong with you. Everyone is different; give it some time and let your desires guide you until you feel that you are ready to take the next step.
Ur prolly a lesbian. Kiss ur best friend and see how it goes