i read my gf's diary the other day, and found some things that upset me, i know i shouldn't have read it, it is the whole point of a diary, i shouldn't know whats in it, if she knew everything that went through my head then it just wouldn't work. it was after an argument she wrote how can i tell him this and that nothing bad and then how can i tell him "i never really wanted to kiss him, i only wanted him for sex" this was written some time ago and i know she feels strongly for me know it even said so, it said after that, that she felt bad about thinking that because she loves me so much now. i asked her about it not saying that i read her diary and she admitted she did feel like that the first time we got together but not know, we have been together for 3 months and it has been going great, and she even wants to live with me, i think it is too soon though. it is bothering me, i shouldn't have read it. should i be bothered????
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That's what happens when you read someone's diary, you are faced with the info you thought you wanted to know, but now knowing it, you can never forget it.
All that really matters is now:
Is she worth it?
Do you love her?
Can you trust her?
Do you see yourself being with her 10 years from now?
Would she make a good mother to your future children?
I don't think you should be bothered about it now.The present matters,not the past.You shouldn't have read it though.I'm sure you'd have been ticked off if she'd have invaded your space somehow.We all need space and boundaries.Think first next time.
THree months?? dude you got one horny little gal and once the fire goes dim she will want to relight it and you may not be the one that can do that but for now you are the one so enjoy it while it lasts....