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OK, so if you are a lesbian...you have actually said it...come out of the closet now, before your life is way too complicated!

Talk to other lesbians you know, and if you dont know any, find some, and talk about it. get comfortable with it, and then others will accept and be comfortable with it too.

Dont live a lie....it really sucks. I assume you are young....better than 30 or 40, married with kids and cant take it any more and come out then.

Not much of a secret anymore....

If you're not attracted to him you should end it. It's not nice to lead him on. Or to cheat on him for that matter. Yes, I definitely suggest ending it for cheating and being a lesbian dating a guy...

Leave your boyfriend. Why would you choose to put him through all your leading him on? Let him go now. If you do it right, you could still have him as a friend.

Let him join in on some of the fun you have with your girlfriend.

Break up with the guy. As your relationship with him goes further the more difficult it will to break up with him.

omg well you'll have to dump one of them now.

Probably the man because your not attracted to him but no matter what you have to dump one of them.

wow i scretly like girls 2

only you can truly answer that , think what is best for all parties and your self

dont tell anyone