There is a guy who has insulted his cute and dedicated girlfriend to whom he also know that she is very attached to him and given him the security of marriage and she loves him unconditionally, but according to his boyfriend she is not a good lover .in boy’s home everybody is aware of there love and know that he will marry with that girl. And in girl’s home her sisters and brother knows that she they will marry but when for marriage girl demanded for his past address and salary and present address then he got annoyed from her and he said her very wrong words-BOYS WORDS--you couldn’t be my wife how could you be a daughter-in-law and sister in law your brother doesn’t trust me …cant you say him that you love me and there is no need of enquire …When girl said yes I had done, then he said no this is my insult my family’s insult I can’t bear it …you just say in the name of saying there is no sense in your words, you people have not faced the problem in searching the groom that’s why you are behaving like this you have got all the things done in very simple manner that is why you people are not thankful…as you are facing a disease(fits)you must have faced many problems and everybody denies after listening about of this disease.
I know you will come with your family to my home I know you will say mere bhai ko ye mtt kaho to mere papa ko wo mtt kaho…but I will say if I would find anybody’s wrong I would say it directly. do you know how many guys marry with a girl who is facing disease (fits)?.
Please suggest should this girl marry with this guy?
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No, I do not think she should marry this guy. If I am reading this properly . . . The young man has already told you he believes this girl is not a good lover (for him) and he does not want to marry someone facing a disease. He is not the right man for this girl if he has said these things. Do not attempt to get him to change his mind. He has flat out told you he does not wish to marry her.
The other thing that worries me is you mention that the girl (or her family) was "demanding" information from the man. In a situation where people truly want to marry, the necessary information is shared willingly. There is no need to "demand."
Also, why would you marry someone when you didn't even know his present address? When you had to "demand" it from him? Obviously, you don't know the man well enough to even consider marriage with him.
Let this man go. He is not the right one.
confusing. but if i read this right, why would the family of the girl demand the past & present address, and paycheck of the guy? this is not right. seems like the girl's family is very materialistic.
I have read this twice and I have NO idea what you are talking about. Stop insulting everyone and get married if you are in love and if you are not in love don't get married. Best advice i can give you on what I can understand from what you wrote.
Good luck.
Ignore him absolutely. One has right to know the antecedents of the boy and if he is not providing don't take it as normal.
disease or not, if you love her marry her. If you dont , leave her someone else will.