this guy i met on instagram who liked me made all my friends jealous just to get me to date him. hes 16, im 14, he doesnt care he just wants me, no one else. hes convinced im perf and he wouldnt have anyone but me. he then wanted to talk to a new friend or he was gonna suicide himself. so i pretended to be my friend on the network and it was okay with her as long as she new details. her parents caught her by reading our convo, now she wont talk to me. now this dude says i have until tomorrow or he will suicide if i wont be his gf, hes serious, he does weed, and he got bullied, he wants to kill himself, he will do it. Im so frightened because i dont like him and he wont take no for an answer. and i wont tell a parent , my parents will kick my *** . helpp i have only til tomorrow and yes i blocked him on most networks
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Dear, this is called emotional blackmail. He doesn't care about you, not really, or he wouldn't try and force you to be his gf. He's a sick puppy with all this stuff about killing himself. And so what should you do? Let him to what he's going to do but you stand up for yourself and say NO. Say NO to everything and anything he says from now on. I wouldn't o near your computer for a week, dear. But cut him off, don't respond.
And what happens, happens. But if he does something crazy, it's not on you, it's on him. He's a nut job and psycho and needs professional mental help. You can't help him, you're not responsble for his actions.
Suicide hotline?