11 weeks pregnant,baby daddy problems?

I must warn ya'll this is long,but i wanted too make sure ya'll understand my situation,thank you a head of time for reading this...and that's too everybody who already gave me some great answers.

Last April i started talking to this guy he was 20 & i was 16.We dated for 10 months & we called it quits.About a month later his older brother which was 23 and i was 17 at the time.Became really close,but just as friends..i didn't see him like that cause he used to date my older sister back in the day & i used too date his brother...we became best friends after awhile did everything together.i used to introduce him too my friends & he would sleep with them & i was cool about it. & one day we were chilling & we end up doing the deed.after awhile his brother found out but he was cool about it....we then started kinda somewhat started dating.i didn't sleep or mess around with anybody else since i broke up with his brother.he still talk too other girls & slept with them.but i wasn't really tripping... we still did our thing about 5 months into it,i got pregnant.i was 17 & he was 23 at this time.we didn't tell anybody..& i was tottaly against abortion but we talked & talked about it & we decided to get an abortion (i know very bad decision, i wasnt in my right mind,he mad it seem like i was doing what was best for us) he was really supportive,couple of days later he asked me out i said yes..we went out for about 2 days until,girls stated telling me he was sleeping with them chilling with them...so we broke up we were still pretty close then...still did everything together.just like if we were dating.so about 2months ago i got pregnant again..he didn't believe me & said it wasnt his at first & we went to the doctor and found out i wasnt lying & he knew deep down it was his a couple of weeks later he told me we couldn't be together cause if his mom found out about me she would be dissapointed cause i dated his brother & now im pregnant by him...so i was like wtf i told him i was gonna have the baby no matter what...& told me i was dumb,immature,retarted cause i don't wanna have an abortion,today i'am 18 he is 23.he told me he was never gonna be with me ever,that he doesn't even wanna be friends with me just to hit him up when i have appointments.but that's it.& he wants to date other girls.i told him idk what to tell him anymore but that i'ma go over to drop off his stuff & pick up my stuff.

he tells me that i'm perfect for him,& he cares about me,& i'm a good girl.but hes not gonna hurt his mom & i'm not worth it.

i tried my best too make him happy,and show him it can work.before all this went down we were doing just fine.he took me out on plenty of date,we did everything together.we were unseperatable.when i would spend days at his house..i would cook for him,wash clothes,dishes,clean. i bought him things i knew he liked brought him food.i did it all out of kindness not cause he made me or asked me.i spent so much time with him.i stopped talking too alot of my friends,i hardley went out.i kinda had no life cause dedicated all my time too him.

soo i posted that a couple of days ago.... now there's more to it.

so i texted him a few days ago telling him "your really not gonna be there" & he texted me back say "why cant you wait my god alexandra,its not that bad i cant do this right now,i already told you what this would do this to my family,i mean we havent really evern dated and you dont know me and i dont know you all that well" and i was like "ill be sure to tell your son/daughter when he/she asks about you "oh that guy baby,well he said we were gonna ruin his family& we werent worth it"".and he was like "wow you do that" ....." its not the baby i regret its the person whos having it" i told him "you regret me" he told me "i regret getting you pregnant,yes" and i was like "oh so if it was any of your sluts,you wouldnt care" ...he told me "idk why your acting like this all of a sudden,your not like this .ive never been mean to you,or said or done anything to hurt your feelings,the only thing i said was not to have the baby but if you want me to be mean then i will" i sent him a 5 page msg saying im done,if your not there from the begging dont be there at all and that im leaving to cali on monday for god and a whole bunch of crap.....& he didnt text me back its been two days...hes been having partys at his house and having girls go over not giving two freaks about me or his baby...

so what should i do???should i text him again saying something?should i just leave?should i go all psycho on him like most girls will do lol jk im not the crazy type(: thanks too whoever took there time too read this

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