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Well, i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17. It is only okay if she mature enough to be with a guy your age. Otherwise, the relationship would be very childish. She'll obviously have to gain the needs and wants that you want. If you really think this can work out then give it a shot. My relationship is great and we have been together for two years. :) Hope this helps. And whoever disliked this is a douche.

Hi,

3 years isn't a big difference especially in high school. What you need to be aware of though is the laws concerning Statutory Rape. Yeah, an awful word if you begin a relationship with this girl but when you turn 18 she will still be underage and consenting or not if her parents or if she decides to have a cow over something then you could end up thrown under the bus. So, if you can keep it in your pants until she's 18 or not and take the chance......then as long as you both enjoy each others company who cares what anyone else thinks.

It really depends on the two of you and how mature each of you are. Being friends is not a problem, but a serious relationship may be problematic, especially as you will be 18 soon, legally an adult and she would still be a minor. Also, at your ages, you are both growing and changing as individuals. Five to ten years from now, you will both likely be very different from what you are now. The age difference then will seem much than it seems now.

theres different opinions. and i side with both at different age points. when you're older, age doesnt seem to be a big deal. for instance im a 19 yr old male dating a 26 yr old female. but in my opinion the teen years are strange. i think anything more than 2 years difference is too much there. like 14/17 or 15/18 or 16/19. thats just how i feel though. but when you get to be like 17 dating a 20 yr old i think thats fine. hard to explain but makes sense in my head.

Nah. I know high school Freshmen who hang out with Juniors, Seniors with Juniors, Sophomore with Seniors. Whatever. You name it. Age difference isn't really a big deal, especially when it's only three years. Don't sweat it. (:

EDIT: Make note that this is under the "friends" category! So I'm assuming you want this girl as a friend... If not, specify or repost the question in the correct (romance) category.

i don't see any problem unless you're thinking about **x. Keep in mind that she is three years younger than you, and at such a young age don't think you're 100% serious until the relationship is solid enough and working at least until she graduates high school. Also, to adults they'll think you're just being kids. Three years isn't anything compared to some of the large age gaps in recent years.

It might be a problem with her father, or parents. You are older so they will want to meet you, and depending on if they have trust issues it might be a problem. You have to prove to them you are a gentleman, and get them to trust you. Also if the girl you are with is really immature then it might be a set back too. I personally don't think it is a problem. I mean my boyfriend is 22 years old and I am 18 years old. My mother accepts it because I am mature enough for him, and he is a kind gentleman.

I think it is alright. I'm not sure where you are from, but jsut dont do anything illegal. you know what i mean? yea.. that illegal thing. >< and if its legal, always always be protected. its just a precautious warning from me.

and if you guys like each other age difference wont be a big deal. what matters is how you feel. :)

take care of each other!

Okay Dustin.. Here's the deal.. Some people may think it's awkward, but if you really like her, GO FOR IT! She may end up being the one, if you don't go for it.. You may not have a chance</3 Good Luck, Dude!

nawww love has no dif u cna hav a 50 y-old dating a 30 y-old thts fine love cannot be stopped