An awkward predicament?
I cheated on my girlfriend with her brother. I decided to tell her what happened and she got mad and broke up with me. A week later we talked it out and we are still friends. Her family is like my second family, they are very open-minded and fun loving.
Her brother asked me out the same day we made up! I have more in common with him than I ever did with his sister and he is really attractive and intelligent. I just don't know the best way to approach this situation and stay friends with my ex and not ruin my relationship with her family.
Any advise? Or anybody who has been in a similar situation? Please share.
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oh wow ... that is a predicament
well, (first of all eva we do not know if he is gay or bi ... he has just split up with a girlfriend) but i suppose the easiest thing to do ... would be wait for a bit and if he truely cared he would wait for you to.
but she might not enjoy the fact that you and he are dating, so just ask her first whether or not it would be ok to go out with her brother, after all, if she is a good friend and im not doubting her, she should have no real problem exept jealousy ... omg this is one hard question
if as you say the family is that cool, then there should be no problem with going out with him but your main issue is his sister. try to convince her that you feel this is right and hopefully she will understand
i hope it goes well and you get through this
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You just need to be open with her. If you are currently friends now than you should be able to talk about the topic. Ask her how she feels about and it and if she would be open to the idea of you and her brother trying to build a relationship.
Just be honest with her. But I suppose she now knows you are gay and her brother is also.