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I think you should try the new Pepsi Max.

With regards to you father, he used to abuse you, then he murdered someone. You should never see him again, and never let your kids near him.

Babe i really feel for you,but how can you even think about introducing your pure little children to such a vicious predator. I know that he is your blood but believe me when i tell you that you need to protect them from him.I met my real mom last year i`m 26 and my daughter is 3 and my biological mom is not a murderer but she is mentally ill,even though she does`nt see it,and my daughter reacted so strange to her she went into her self.So what i`m trying to say is the kids can sense these kind of weirdos and they can get very disturbed so really your kids are going to go through enough when the monster is let out but at least they will be a bit older.

He may be sorry for what he did to you but I don't think that you should subject your children to him. No, he does not need to see them. You don't need to harbor ill feelings toward him, you can forgive him and move on with your life, the life that he has to miss out on because of the stupid decisions he made. I know you will never forget but forgive and live ya life for ya kids. Forget him, he will have to answer for that in the end. If you need to talk to a professional do that. Also if u need to see him on ur own to say everything that u need to say....do that as well and leave him in ya past!! good luck

He could never be trusted and god only knows what the photos would be used for in the jail, men do swap photos so no dont send him any photos or have contact hes a murderer simple he is a life taker and will not be of benefit to anyones life including your kids, he gave you nothing so you owe him nothing.

That's a tough question.

I mean it's your Dad but that's kinda scary to think of seeing him from the past abuse that he did and especially since you need to protect your kid's.

If anything I would say meet him somewhere public and wait till he leaves and then you leave. That way he can't follow you anywhere and try to hurt you guys if he was still going to do that..

My gosh thats scary God bless you and your family for safety hang in there

I personally would put him to the back of my mind and let him get on with his life/sentence without you or your children! You say he used to abuse you? Forget him,he's not worth your thoughts.Move on and give your children a lovely life without their murdering abusing grandfather!

are you insane,someone abuses you and you want to reward them with photos of your children,grow a backbone think of him as done and dusted,he still has some power over you if you are even considering contact even by post.you are Worth more than he could ever give you back,don't be his victim any longer.be happy you don't owe him anything........

you have to consider the safety your children i wouldnt let him see them. not only that it will open old wounds. i know what happened to you was terrible but look to the future and concentrate on the positive things in your life like your husband and children.

PS hope the bar##ed rots in jail

i wouldnt have your kids anywhere near this man he has no right to see your kids and he should be on a sex offenders list and if he gets incontact let him know why, that is awful for you to go through something like that its a terrible ordeal. i hope you got professional help or someone to talk to about it

I`m afraid that your Dad would probably eat your children given half a chance.